This is sort of complicated to explain. But before I dated my girlfriend I only dated boys. I like dating girls more than boys and I find girls attractive, but I also find some boys attractive. She keeps saying "how can you be with me if your straight" and I keep saying I'm not and she's trying to categorize me. I think I don't know what I am...I just go with what I'm feeling. I don't really think it's bisexual...because I really don't know where on the "gay scale" it is (as some lesbians would date guys and some straight women would consider dating girls). I don't really feel a need to place myself in a little labelled box. What should I tell her? Thanks.
2007-10-29 08:00:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
tell her that labels belong on things not people.
2007-10-29 08:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by kevins hippy chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can tell her that you are who you are. And you don't need to confine yourself within the walls of categorization. You are with her because [insert reason] and not because you're lesbian to a degree or you're bisexual. With all the labels going on around the world, it's kind of difficult for some people to not put you inside a certain box just so you belong to one right? Talk to her seriously if it bothers you too much okay? Take care! ;)
2007-10-29 08:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by J. McCoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, lesbians are not attracted to men ,straight or gay?Lesbians do sometimes are attracted to straight woman . Straight men do not date lesbians because lesbians find men repulsive. Straight men do not date gay men for the same reason lesbians don't date men. Gay men are attracted to other gay men and sometimes make unwanted advances towards straight men; the same goes for lesbian woman and straight woman.
The answer to your question is that you are maybe bi-sexual???
2007-10-30 10:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by Fearless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend and I went through this argument! I accused HER of being straight because she wouldn't bump naughties with me.
Then I started thinking.... maybe I have problems if sex is such a big deal.
Who cares if you find boys attractive or girls attractive -- you're with her, isn't that what counts?
2007-10-29 08:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i know were u are coming from because i used to be categorize like that. but i finally decided that i wanted to be with my girlfriend and i feel that u need to choose who u want to be show her that you want to be with her and only her. That just my opinion.
2007-10-29 08:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look,if you find,girls,aattractive,but you also,find boys attractive,well i think your in the scale of bi,curios,but is more likely,that you are goin to be bisexual,and is nothing,wrong,whit the way your are felling now by.
2007-10-31 14:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by NERI M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you just told us.. let her know that you dont need labels to love her.
but if she is that persistent and pushy with making you label yourself its not worth it.. she obviously can't love you for all that you are.
Good luck! hope things get better
2007-10-29 08:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by lostboi3008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont tell her SHOW her go up and randomly kiss a guy to let ehr know ur not completely straight
2007-10-29 08:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by adrenaline 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you've been with guys too, you're bisexual...If you've stopped dating guys entirely, you're a lesbian...
2007-10-29 08:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly what you just posted here.
It is what it is and nothing more.
2007-10-29 08:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by ►solo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋