my husband hates my mother my mother tried to like my husband he treats me badly and this upsets my mom and my mom and my husband get into it over how he treats me now my mother is banned from our house what do i do
2007-10-29 07:43:39 · 11 answers · asked by marianne w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go to your mom's for christmas and stay there. Why do you want to be with someone who treats you badly?
2007-10-29 08:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by LB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first Lady! Go to your Mother's house and stay there.Start hiding money and things now so he can't find it and get a divorce if he is treating you badly why would you want to stay with him anyway? You only have one Mother but husbands/wives come and go.Good luck.
2007-10-29 08:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by notagain49 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, this is kind of your fault for involving your mother in you and your husbands problems. You need to give it time and not tell your mom anything about your problems. Of course she is not going to like someone who treats you bad. If you choose to stay with your husband, then you need to keep mom out of your problems. Simple as that. Had you not told mom the problems she wouldnt be mad at him.
2007-10-29 08:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
your mom has his number and it hurts her to see her child abused. why would u let this man control u, and still stay with him. there is such a thing as separation, or divorce. u don't have to be treated like this and need to stand up for yourself unless u fear abuse, and in that case get a restraining order, get an attorney, have his as setts frozen, and divorce him. if he is not treating u right he needs to be told he is doing wrong, and a mother will always intervene when her child is getting hurt. u need to rethink your relationship with him, as its also your hone not just his. he sounds as if he wants to keep your mom away so he can feel free to abuse u.
2007-10-29 08:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have been telling your mother about how he mistreats you and she then tries to intercede you made this problem yourself.
Its now up to you to choose whether you stay married or go live with your mother.
In future make it your practice not to tell your family about your fights. You may get over it but they will not. This is what you get from that.
2007-10-29 08:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you do? Well....I can tell you this. The more you knuckle under to this then you can kiss your mother goodbye.
You'd better address this and but quick lady-jane or you'll find yourself without a mother.
2007-10-29 07:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would go to yr motheres house for Xmas and stuff him if he treat u that bad u will have a better time of it there
2007-10-29 07:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by Dianne E 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I AGREE TOTALLY WITH ALL OF THE PREVIOUS ANSWERS... GO TO YOUR MOMS.. AND LEAVE HIS HATEFUL A** AT HOME.. ALONE
2007-10-29 07:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You go and visit her than ... he cannot stop you...
Tell him he cannot decide whom you must be related to ...
2007-10-29 07:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by dhaval b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUMP THAT SORRY AZZ BASTARD AND DONT LOOK BACK!! UR MOM LUVS YOU & DOES NOT LIKE HIM MISTREATING U.....HE IS A SELFISH JERK WHO OBVIOUSLY DOE NOT LOVE U AND HAS TO ABUSE U AND CONTROL U. LEAVE HIM!
2007-10-29 07:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by NEWPORT BEACH GIRL 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋