would you give him old clothes that you no longer wanted or just try to ignore what he was doing
2007-10-29 07:13:23 · 30 answers · asked by sister 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
speechgirl2013 he is 15
2007-10-29 07:23:22 · update #1
I was the oldest & my sister was the younger by 7 years & she never knew that I liked to crossdress, but my favorite aunt did, it all started the first time I had to wear a pair of her panties. She lived close by & I would spend as much time there as I could, but I wasn't her nephew anymore, I was her niece. Those pre-teen years were great, I sure missed her when she got married & moved away, but I was 11 then & well into crossdressing. I did get to see her years later, but that's a whole different story.
My wife (the eldest) & her sister (the youngest) let their brother have their old clothes when they were younger and I even got some of those old clothes when their mom moved. All those boxes of clothes & things did get to the Goodwill, but after I took my time getting everything that would fit me & I found some great things too.
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2007-10-29 17:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him gently, let him know that you know, give him clothes that you no longer require so that it sets the ground rules - i.e. he doesn't borrow any of your stuff without your permission.
Offer him support, help and guidance - not just on how to dress and apply makeup - there will probably be a lot of confused thoughts running around his head. There's loads of good information sites that you can swot up from (see below for a couple). He may need help, for example, on how to talk to your parents about how he feels
Most important - be his friend as well as the caring, supporting, guiding older sister.
2007-10-29 13:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah R 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I had a brother and he liked to crossdress I would give him some of my clothes. I'm not judgmental. Whatever makes him happy. I'd also go shopping with him and help him pick out things that he likes.
2007-10-29 07:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I say give him the clothes. Why not? It does no harm to anyone, and he will have some clothes that he didn't have to either a)sneak away from someone, or b) go into a store and try to buy (which would no doubt cause some embarrassment)
2007-11-05 01:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by Drake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you throw your old clothes away he'll take them anyways, and then feel like its his 'dirty little secret' You may as well support him so when/if he comes out (he might not be gay!!!) then he'll be well balanced and happy. rather than a tormented liar.
I know from experience that lying can become a really bad habit that is hard to break!!! While im in the army it'll continue. but when i am out!! Good!! I can break it!! so stop this bad thing! and assist. But do explain that its not widely accepted in societyl, but take a lighthearted veiw an d enjoy his company he is your brother (sister).
2007-11-05 02:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by Bi Forces Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Support him as you feel fit in doing so for him. He needs all the help he can get if you yourself feel it is okay for him to be a crossdresser. Some sisters never realize their true value in such situations as this one is. If you are against it, tell him so too. Whatever you do, be honest with him about it in the end.
2007-10-29 11:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by cadaholic 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I am bias with this answer but you could talk to him and do a deal. You give him clothes to wear and the opportunity to wear then and he keeps your room tidy and looks after your clothes. IF he is a transvestite he would like to do that and you get a personal maid
2007-10-31 02:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the obvious question is the ages of the pair.
Two adults, you're old enough to make your own decisions.
Teens:, MIGHT be a phase.
Pre-teens, its called dressing up, not cross dressing.
As long as it causes him no problems, bullying etc, let him do it. Maybe he'll buy something you'll like to borrow...
2007-10-29 07:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by paof2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a younger brother, and I enjoy just wearing some of my sister's skirts and tops and dresses, and she doesn't care about me doing that. All older sisters should dress up their younger brothers as girls
2007-11-01 04:37:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy, Oops,
Kermits Opinion: Give him the clothes hes not doing any harm,
2007-10-29 07:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋