I am 12 and she is 14 and she said sex feels good and I should do it. But she said do lots of positions and dirty thing. She wants me to print the positins out so she knows i did it. what are good positions and explain them please. I am not going to have sex, i am just going to lye to her.
2007-10-29 06:53:38 · 14 answers · asked by lauren.mccurdie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do not have sex ok... u r 2 young for that right now, it's true sex is something really beautiful, ok and like ur friend says it does feel good, but it's beautiful when it's with the right person, in other word with the person u love... just go to some website where they have some sex positions or something, to print them out....i'm sorry if i sound like a parent or something is just that i have a 14 year old brother, and i wouldn't want for him to be having sex right now...well good luck!!
2007-10-29 07:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This actually reminds of that movie "American Beauty"
The main character had this best friend who all she talked about was sex this and sex that, and having sex with this, that and the other person. Turns out she was a virgin all along.
It could be that your friend is just giving you a hard time, pressuring you to do what she thinks is "cool." If your friend is constantly pressuring and saying all kinds of things to you that you don't feel is right or wouldn't feel right doing, that is obviously not the right kind of person to hang out with. And you shouldn't have to lie to a friend for them to be friends with you or for you to feel the need to fit in with them. There are plenty of good, decent people out there that will tell you that sex and being "dirty" is not all there is to life.
Good friends are hard to find - so when you find them, hold onto them.
2007-10-29 14:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by iammai 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm 12 too. What I'd have to say is...how do I explain this..well, first of all: She's only 14, I don't think she ever had sex, and even if she did (I doubt it though), what the heck is she trying to prove with that? You should just tell her that you aren't going to have sex until your actually grownup and if you really really want to know sex positions, well, go search on google, although that would be really lame, but it's your choice.
2007-10-29 14:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Come back when your 18, and consider losing her as a friend. Your way to young to even be thinking about sex, let alone positions.
2007-10-29 13:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i lost my virginity quite young (not as young as that mind) and regretted it. And the sex was never that good! In fact dare i say crap! It sounds like your friend is a bit if a ho bag and un-fortunately you may become a ho bag by proxy even if you stay a virgin forever.
Remember, a reputation is the easiest thing to get and the hardest thing to lose!
2007-10-29 14:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by kate e 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im 99% sure she's lying, only because I used to lie like that in high school. It's a popularity gig. If you really wanna know if your friend is having sex make a funny face at her and say, "you know this school is loaded with STD's right?" GL (^_-)
2007-10-29 14:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Amy D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shes not a very good friend if she wants you to do that! You are far to young to be thinking of that, however if you want idea's there all over the internet, go look!
2007-10-29 14:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by Shannon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa!!
Ya'll are way too young to be thinking about having sex!
It is ok to be a little inquisitive but I think your friend is taking it too far. I wouldn't anything at all!! Just leave it be and simply tell her that you are waiting until you are ready. If she is your friend she will respect this and leave it be.
2007-10-29 13:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by tinyavenger 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is no need to lie to her. Whenever she mentions that again tell her to get a life of her own because even if u did have sex, which u shouldnt because you're too young, that's none of her business.
2007-10-29 14:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 12, you can wait 5-6 years, at least.
And everybody lies about sex. I'll bet she is, too.
2007-10-29 13:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋