My ex-husband e-mailed to tell me he had seen photos of me posted on an adult website. When I asked him to tell me where, he wouldn’t. Knowing he was the only person who has ever taken “compromising" photos of me, I asked him to show me the photos. He finally did show me one of the photos and I realized he had taken one of the photos he took when we were together (years ago) and edited it to show me with someone else. He denies it and will not tell me if he posted the photos on the internet. I’m not too terribly concerned about the pictures, because I’ll never become Miss America (and if I did it probably wouldn’t matter anyway) but I’m shocked that someone would go to these lengths to discredit someone.
2007-10-29 06:23:52 · 13 answers · asked by Ally S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't worry about it. There are so many pictures on the Internet that are Photo shop jobs........ It seems like your Ex is a loser and he is just trying to get a rise out of you, dont' give him the satisfaction...
2007-10-29 06:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by Moe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, somehow he had the pictures on the internet... but he may not have intended they be public. Several people with their pictures on places like myspace and other sites have had their pictures stolen and put in adult ads and websites.
2007-10-29 13:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by stratiotes7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not terribly concerned, then just drop the matter. This guy sounds like someone you don't want to have in your life, so just tell him to bug off and leave you alone.
2007-10-29 13:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would go to the law and have the pictures confiscated from him just for the heckof it and then I would tell him that it doesn't bother you that he edited the pictures since you look good anyway
2007-10-29 13:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell it's like your boarderline mad & not really giving a crap! Some people are so insecure that they do things to hurt others "just cause they can." Remind yourself that this is one of the many reasons - HE IS YOUR EX!!! Make sure that vengence is NOT on your list of comebacks & you will come out on top of this whole silly mess!
2007-10-29 13:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by T. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let it go for now. I'm sure nothing will come of it and chalk it up to a lesson that never allow anyone...husband or not...to enter a room where you're nude and whip out a camera.
2007-10-29 13:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should have kept the pics....hopefully he doesn't decide to send them to your parents, employer, etc....through some dummy yahoo mail account!
I never understand why any self respecting woman would make a porno of herself and not make sure to keep it to ensure it didn't get out!
2007-10-29 13:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by Smooth Lyrics II 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could also try writing to the website owner and telling them they do not have your persmission to have your pictures up. Might get them off the site.
2007-10-29 13:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Legally, someone only needs your permission to TAKE the picture. What they do with it after that is their business. You've already consented.
Just ignore him. He'll go away.
2007-10-29 13:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay so you're not terribly concerned so what is the problem?
2007-10-29 13:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋