Me and my gf went out for half a year, broke up, and then got back together. we only broke up for two months, and that was cause of a mix up. when we were getting back together she admitted that basically, she'd been the type of girl that had a one nighter hear or there. not excessive. like once every six months. but she said she would get the urge for a make out or more with the wrong type of guy about once a month, usually right before her period, and about every six months she'd cave. i asked her if she ever cheated, and she said not on me.
Compared to me, she is a realy sexual person. sounds unusual that the girl would be more sex driven then a guy, but in this case its true. I’m busy and tired a lot, and just more easily satisfied I guese.
now - i never told her this, and it sounds sick, but the thought of her hook up is intense for me. In fact, the though of her being the wrong type of a girl is intense. Like being with a sexual rockstar. like a turn on. i fantasize about it. what happened. etc.
I’ve breached the topic, and talked about the possibilities, but when we were fooling around - and I act like its dirty talk I’m doing for her benefit - like to make sure we take of her itch before or after she goes out with her freinds.
i realy realy want to give her the go ahead to do it again. call me crazy, and i'll admit it. i want to give her a rubber, and say use at your pleasure. Like, she’s not a ho, so it won’t be like she’ll be doing it every time she goes out, but in the rare time when she really feels it, I want her to feel like she can without ruining our relationship. For me, I think the risk, and not knowing, and the cahcne something is hoppening is HOT!!!!!
I want to tell her but I’m worried about her reaction.
2007-10-29 06:00:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
First and foremost... WRONG category!!!..
Moving right along....if you don't bring it to her you will never know. You have been with her long enough that you should be able to put it on the table and get a productive conversation out of her... she may even be into it.... what you should have done was discussed it when you got back together and let her know... you are going to have to set rules.. and boundaries.. so that it doesn't get out of hand... another suggestion... ask her if she ever thought about swingers clubs.... that's a way to get her what she likes and for you to get what you like... Good luck
2007-10-29 06:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by WhoDidThat??? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having taken the time to read all this I'll answer with the assumption you're being serious.
Sexual fantasies of MOST sorts are are not uncommon at all.
However, if you consider this a serious relationship, you are setting yourself up for heartbreak in the long run when she leaves you for one of her casual flings that becomes a deeper commitment.
Secondarily you are setting yourself up for potential STDs.
NO protection is fool-proof, and what's to ensure you she'll make use of such EVERY TIME?
2007-10-29 13:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!! So you want her to go out there and fu** other people for your satisfaction. WOW!! I'm speechless..............
Ok, sit down and talk to her explaining to her that this is your type of fetish, see if she is down with it and if she is WOOHOO for you and her, if she's not then buy porn and use your imagination! GOOD LUCK!
2007-10-29 13:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by Spanish Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this question belongs in the fiction section, dude.
2007-10-29 13:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got issues dude...
now send her over to my house Bob.
2007-10-29 13:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by ruondafloyet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats, you're totally crazy. Enjoy.
2007-10-29 13:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just let her read this?
2007-10-29 13:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋