There's this dude that my friend likes and we think he likes her too. But instead of telling us what he feels, he kinda ' ignores ' her in a way. This drives me and her CRAZY!!! What do we need to do for him to feel comfortable understanding??
2007-10-29 05:53:11 · 4 answers · asked by Red :) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what u need to do is start off slow start out with just saying hi whats up? kinda thing, than the next day comment him on something, and... well u know what they say 3erd times the charm! so on the 3rd day strike a convo that u know will last for more then 50sec. just start out friends and u'll see things will get much better!
2007-10-29 06:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Supernat above is on the right track. Start slow. The Dude may be shy, uncertain of his feelings, unwilling to commit himself.....and more. Remember, just because your friends likes this guy, doesn't mean he feels the same way and may not want to seem rude (not realizing he is being....difficult)
After a couple of attempts at engaging him in conversation and social situations, you'll know if he is ready for a friendship (he may not be) and can navigate on his own now.
2007-10-29 06:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he cant express himself when there is two of u next time u all meet up leave them on their own and see what happens
2007-10-29 06:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by Alec B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe his shy or something. most guys think that if they show there feelins that they are weak
2007-10-29 06:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋