.. sex only after marriage?
2007-10-29 05:05:28 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I don't but I respect people that do. It is a very difficult choice to make, especially if the person you love isn't 100% for it but it will prove their love for you if they are prepared to wait until you are married.
2007-10-29 05:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by whats my name again 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I do. I waited until I was 21. I had been with the same man and married him. I don't regret it today. I talk to my kids (22 & 23 year olds) about it and tell them the pride I feel telling it. I did it for myself, not for anyone else. I also did it because that is what God wanted.
Today kids start too soon and really don't get to enjoy the pride and joy of being with someone. Sex is not only sex. Maybe it is for men but for all women it is an emotional attachment. I don't understand what all the promisucity if about today. Your body is you temple. You should treat it like one. You only have one body and only you decide who and what happens to it. Later in life you will be happy you chose to save yourself.
Now, after my first marriage ended in divorce I did have sex without being married. Not alot, but I will admit I did. I choose to and was secure in doing so. I've been married now almost 20 years and do NOT belive in cheating in marriages. It makes a marriage fulfillling and gives a trust and security factor that cannot be matched. I don't really believe in divorce but was in a physically/mentally abusive marriage and my first husband left me when I was 7 months pregnant with our second child for another woman. I'm OK with it now. I met and married my current spouse and we love and adore one another. Everyone knows that marriage is hard but the best rewards come from sticking together. I'm not one who believes in short term relationships.
Just my opinion.
2007-10-29 05:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I'm 36 and I'm still a virgin. Sex outside of marriage is fornication and the Bible speaks against fornication. Whenever I get married, I'm sure my wife will be glad that she is the first woman that I've had sex with. I know alot of people want someone with plenty of experience. I prefer someone with no experience at all. She'll have plenty of experience after marriage. I can lose my virginity any time I choose to. But once I do, I can never be a virgin again. And that's something I've got to keep until marriage. Sex outside of marriage will not make me any happier than I am and won't make any more manly than I am already.
2007-10-29 05:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe if you want to be unhappy for the rest of your life!! Sex is too big a part of a relationship to wait until after you're married, some people just don't mesh. How would you like to be stuck with a dud for the rest of your marriage? How do you know what good sex is if you've only been with one person? Don't cheat yourself out of life's pleasures....sex is definitely one of them. Experiment, safely of course, find what you like and then decide on marriage. Sex should lead to marriage not the other way around...people rush into marriage because they can't wait to have sex, then you are stuck.
2007-10-29 05:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by Apple 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oh good god no. Sex is a big part of a marriage and anyone who says otherwise is a liar or has no idea. You have to test drive the car before you buy it, I say
2007-10-29 05:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
well, i'm sure there are many people who still believe in this. i don't. given the necessity of a healthy sex life during marriage, some feel that it may be too late to define sexual compatibility post-marriage.
2007-10-29 05:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by gilly 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I believe in pre-marital sex (unless of course, it makes you late for the wedding). Hell, actually I might believe in sex more than I do marriage.
2007-10-29 05:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
sex before marriage is a religion thing to controll the rules of it and im not religious but i know someone who does believe in it.
2007-10-29 05:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It should be if they're underaged but truthfully I know what religion says about it, but sex is an important factor and if the two aren't compatible in that aspect then you're bound for divorce. It's not that easy, but if you and your partner believe in it go ahead it's what you want not what others believe... you know, your body....
2007-10-29 05:10:04 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy R 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are more people that believe in ghosts than waiting until after marriage.
2007-10-29 05:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by jessica.lanelle 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋