Are you? I guess maybe it's because I am mad too. Not like furious or whatever. I like to have fun and I enjoy life blah,blah,blah but some things just make me downright mad.
2007-10-29 03:56:51 · 4 answers · asked by LEMON the good life 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
"Mad at life" probably isn't the best way to put it....since some folks still confuse "mad" for "insane" or other things. ^_^ You know?
But yeah, there's anger aplenty to go around. Lots of people get angry these days, and there's lots of good reasons to be angry.
Here's the thing though....is your anger going to be a positive thing that gets you up, motivates you to solve problems and do things? Or is it going to be a "wreck things" kind of anger, where you just want to trash things?
Or is it just going to fester, unanswered and unaccounted for, until it mutates into a cancer (open hatred namely) and becomes a complex that needs a doctor to control?
I'm asking because the kind of anger you have likely determines the kind of anger you find attractive. Positive people lean towards positive, *working* anger. People who are more negative lean towards the destructive and festering kinds. Very generally speaking. Birds of a feather, all that?
So do you want to fix things, wreck things or just stew in your juices? That's half of your answer right there.
The other half is....I understand that some people in general, and some women in particular, get their hormones mixed up. Specifically, they get the adrenaline rush of anger, or of being in a "fight or flight" situation, confused with the entirely different rush of being aroused and captivated by someone. It can happen to someone especially when *both* types of stimulation of body and mind occur in the same exact context repeatedly.
If you go to a carnival repeatedly on dates, and have fun on the roller coasters and shoot out targets for stuffed toys *every time*, after a while it becomes tough. It gets hard to tell the *thrilling* dates from the *swoony, romantic* ones, because in that context the emotional rush seems much the same. Intensity is intensity, whether it comes from lust or anger after all.
So yeah, at some point the intense people, the angry ones, become hard to tell apart from the sweethearts.
I hope this helps...and that I haven't inspired *too* much anger in your own heart lately. ^_~
Have a star! And take a breather, you deserve one...
2007-10-29 05:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by Bradley P 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
get used to it. life sometimes just sucks!!!
life is NOT fair and you just have-to------sometimes just kick back,...and try to make the best of bad situations in life. if nothing else...walk away until you can deal with it.
it's part of the real life adult world!
if the people you are around,...drag you down...find new friends.
2007-10-29 11:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice to know that there are people who feel the same way you do about life! They can feel where you are coming from!
2007-10-29 11:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by Oh, it's like that? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because you like the "emo" kids
2007-10-29 11:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by special sock puppet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋