I would love to hear your story..... How many of you have re-married your partner?

Question

What are the chances of getting back with your husband/wife?
How did it happen?
Who made the first move?
Are you happy now that you're back together?
Has anything changed?

Thanks!

Answer 1

OMG!!!! Not a chance, I try really hard not to make the same mistake twice.

Answer 2

I did, we were married about ten years, she had an affair we tried to work it out, I had a hard time getting past the affair so we divorced. After about three months we started talking more than just about the kids ended up fooling around a few times, she moved back in felt bad about living together w/o being married so we got remarried. Its been five years since then and we are divorced again, she met a cousin of some work friends and is with him now. I have met a wonderful woman since then and all of the other issues etc are gone I am in love and now understand what a relationship is supposed to be, and I hope my ex has also.

Answer 3

Hiya

I was married for 10 years to a guy. We had issues and it was me that left the marital home. 2 years later we got back together, after I suggested meeting up initially as friends and although we didn't remarry 1 year later I gave birth to our first child. Everything was fine for a while then after another 10 years other issues not directly related to the first time issues emerged. We couldn't overcome these so again it was me that left. Now we don't see or speak to each other at all

I thought after the first split that I had changed enough to be able to cope with things, but our problem is that although we both know how to defend ourselves from the hurting, it doesn't actually involve embracing the problem.

If I have learned anything its about how I tick and I know that together we are useless as a couple.

Answer 4

Anyone thinking of this should ask themselves this why did you divorce in the first place, there was a reason. I would never remarry my ex we get along better now than we ever did married though we had a real rough spots the first couple of years but a good P.I. helped fix that. Besides I think here husband would have something to say about that lol.
I suggest if your wanting to reconnect with the Ex avoid remarriage one of my closest friends her parents divorced and remarried 5 times they are still together after divorce 5 they just live together that way they can leave with out the expense of lawyers.

Answer 5

My experience was much like yours, except we had always known in our relationship that marriage was something we saw for ourselves. There was always an open dialogue about when, where, etc; Then when we were ready the discussions took a more serious turn and we got into the details and actually decided on a date together. But we didn't consider ourselves officially engaged until he proposed shortly after, something we both wanted. We weren't able to keep the date we had picked, but wedding plans are in motion. I don't find mutual agreements to be engaged all that uncommon. Actually, I think that's how it should be. If one person in the relationship feels they have been blindsided, then they weren't communicating and are not on the same page. A proposal shouldn't ever truly be a surprise.

Answer 6

....Wow!!!......I can't speak for anyone but myself here.....I could never re-marry my ex-wife at this point darling....( I still hold some ash backwards love for her in my heart though )cause she's significantly just recently gotten married her fifth husband alternatively. YIKES!!! I was the first husband in the long line of anxiety riddled marriages....and she and I surely have two of the most beautiful children and some fabulously marvelous grandchildren with one another quite reasonably......but no way would I ever consider the idea of a thought to re-marry an ex that seasonably likes changing up marriage partners, and makes a living off of some exceeding incoherent men of means darling. She's simply a mentally twisted gold digger with no care and no kindness for romantically persuaded men in HER life unfortunately. She's in it for the cash and the upwardly mobile lifestyle darling....not the mentality of having the perfect love really. How absurd for her really? ( just my experience with her....not any one elses ) Hopefully she'll someday find REAL happiness with someone....in the meantime?....I'm still looking too! LOL!!!

Answer 7

I didn't personally do this but my aunt and uncle divorced she got with another man . They were divorced for i thin k3 years then wound up getting married again . Now 8 years later they are happy with 1 out of 5 kids left in the house .

Answer 8

I have not remarried but am best friends with her. So many people ask why we are not together. We just did not love each other that way right? Wrong she is waiting for me to come back, she was the one who left me though.... Do you really think it will work? Trust in your heart for the TRUE ANSWERS, Ask GOD for guidance and you will know if it is for real this time around. GOOD LUCK & GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY,

ME

Answer 9

I remarried my 1rst husband and he asked me. Since then we have been re-engaged 2 more times! I remember at the last moment why we are divorced twice! we do love each other still to this day and this has been going on for 32 yrs

Answer 10

love hear story married partner

Answer 11

What are the chances of getting back with your husband/wife? Never! I can't stand him! He has no morals or integrity.