i like her.......but....what to do when u are not sure whether she likes me or not?

Question

well reefa so that means u wont say no to me........

Answer 1

Are you talking about this girl you just met on-line? If so than you need to slow your roll! you'll scare her off if your to desperate...we females like a good chase ourselves...we do not like guys that are to eager...makes us wonder what the hell is wrong with him!

Answer 2

This is one of life's biggest tortures. If you don't ask you will never know. The problem is that we all fear the embarrassment of rejection.
Your best bet is a softly softly approach to sound her out in gentle moves. Maybe upgrade your compliments each time you chat with her such as.
"I really appreciate having you as a friend." which doesn't expose you to too much embarrassment if you're rebuffed.
If the signs are encouraging then continue at your next chat. Your ideal answer from her would be "Only as a friend?"
Over a week or so (don't stalk the girl for goodness sake!) make you compliments more specific. If you're onto a winner she will let you know. If there's no response or an embarrassing silence you have hit a brick wall and a dignified retreat is in order.
Well good luck and remember "Faint heart never won a fair lady".

Answer 3

No matter where you go or how many you ask, the majority will give you the same answer... You have to be willing to be vulnerable for a few seconds, and move past your fear of rejection and simply ask her. That's the only way you will know for sure. And even if she responds positively, its only a beginning, because once you start to really know her, you might find that although you were attracted to each other you aren't really compatible. But start right now by asking

Answer 4

Uh well, I am pretty sure if it is who I think it is, she likes you! So ask her, the worst she can do is say no, and really she does not know you that well, yet, so give it some time. Ask her see what she says, and take it from there. You are something special and bonds do take time to make, so give it a try, write to each other and take time to really see if there is more there and then let your heart be your guide! Good luck to you!

Answer 5

Hi

If you are not sure then maybe you could start a conversation with her and see where it takes you?

I am sure you will be able to find out if she likes you and then maybe from there you will progress to asking her out on a date.

Good luck

JJ :)

Answer 6

The only way you'll know is to tell her. Never hold back on how you feel. That could make for a bad decision!

Answer 7

a girl likes to see a man who likes her show he really likes her...

then ASK her if she likes you too.. it will definitely take a lot of courage. but as a man, at least you know you've done your best to woo her so shed like you too... if she says no, then at least you know where you stand...

so go on, SHOW her you like her in ways you can.. then if you think you've shown her already how you feel, ASK her how or what she feels about or towards you...

so i hope these tips will help....

ajah...!!! dj fighting...!!! (like koreans say)

Answer 8

go and tell her would u go out with me? and u never know maybe she haven't liked u before but maybe she will and u will both of u get know each other more.just show her urself confidence.and be spontaneous and natural.good luck.

Answer 9

Show her that you like her and if you feel like she's responding to what you're doing then go for it or if you have the guts to ask/tell her, then, go do it, personally.
hope this helps.

Answer 10

keep waiting until she invites you for her marriage..lol

Dude, jusk ask her.. she is going to say either yes or no..

if u meet her in person, you may get a pair of slippers also for free..good luck,,