I think im pregnant, i am 20 yrs old with no long term man and no long term home.
I left home at 15 and since then have been renting where ever i can. I had a really bad experience wth a bloke at 16 and since then have not felt ready for another big relationship; although i still have the sex.
Im not saying that i sleep with a different bloke ever night! Far from it! But if i feel atracted to some one and want to have sex i do !
I know i have a problem with all that and it is something i have been working on, i have not had sex for the last 3 months because i had decided that i did not want to be that girl anymore and maby not right now but one day i want the romance and feelings, security and care that i know comes with a relationship.
But now i think im pregnant i know whose it is (im not that bad lol) but i cant get in contack with him. I scared and excited, dont know what to tell my mum and too scared to do a test right now. What sould i do???
2007-10-29 01:11:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I have no money other than what i earn every week, and am living in spain at the moment so cant even get benefits. Im just so worried because i know how expencive babies are and without a job im screwed!
2007-10-29 01:20:25 · update #1
PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!!
2007-10-29 01:20:48 · update #2
Well, you know, the first thing you need to do is find out for sure if you are pregnant or not. Can you either buy a test from the chemist, or have a test done at the doctors?
If you're not pregnant, you'll probably much better if you save it for someone very special.
If you are pregnant, you'll need support, so you should tell your mum. Can you move in with her to that she can help you? Is there anyone else you can trust, that is happy to help you?
Let us know how it goes, if you'd like to.
Best wishes.
2007-10-30 23:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Nelly 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lets see... humm... what to do...
Well I thin I will go along with everyone on this page so far and tell you what every stupid question like "What do I do, I may be pregnant?" gets...
TAKE A TEST!
Thats all these questions ever get! People varies the details of telling you how to, but thats what it all boils down to! You don't have to be a genius to figure that one out!
"THIS SITE WOULD BE POINTLESS if others could not be alowed to help people." you know what is pointless?
QUESTIONS LIKE THIS, Because if you look at ANY of them, they ALL say the SAME THING.
Are you not smart enough to look at the previously asked questions just like it? It gets asked like a dozen times an hour.
By the way maybe you should learn how to spell, or use a spell check at the very least, before you start having sex and pop out another under educated baby.
2007-10-30 11:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by Heather R 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask your parents if you can come back home. It may be hard to do, but it's the best thing to do. You can know you are pregnant without a test if you are far enough along. You can get one from the drug store.
If you were my daughter; I would want you to come home. Tell your parents. Explain your situation and give it your best shot. Take care of yourself and your baby.
2007-10-29 08:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by Barbra 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do the test and get it over with. When that is over and you know for sure if you're pregnant of not, then you can plan from thereon forward.
If you are pregnant, contact your mother. Your familiy will be the support you need to have during the pregnancy. And if they seriously don't want you near them, after telling them about you pregnancy, then you are unfortunely on your own.
Then you have to plan and get settled. Get a flat for you and baby and talk to your employer about the maternity leave you are going to need for the birth of your baby. Then you can search on the internet for support groups in your area or near to you, for single mothers or pregnant ladies that are going to be single mothers. Trust me, they will also be great support for you during the pregnancy and after birth.
Then get a midwife or doctor to assist you with you pregnancy and birth.
If you have the support of your family then they will help you with all the above. If you have the support of the father of your child, then he also will help you with this.
Just be strong and rely on your instincts. If you feel something is wrong, contact your midwife or doctor. Or the support group if you need anything else.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-10-29 08:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by zola237 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Use protection. You need to take a test and find out either way. If you are pregnant you need to be seen by a doctor and I'm sure you're mother will catch on, hiding a growing belly isn't exactly easy.
2007-10-29 08:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by N and A's Momma 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do the test, the sooner you no the better, and tell your mum the truth you met a guy got to no him well and you slept together, she can only be disapoointed, but your 20 yrs old and old enough to make your own choices in life.
2007-10-29 08:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Take a test this could be a warning for you to slow down
2007-10-29 08:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by juv 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well before you start getting scared you need to take a test that is the first thing you need to do then if its posative take it from there , don't say anything to your mother or the guy until you know for sure, and i guess if its posatibe all you can say to ur mother is that your pregnant..
2007-10-29 08:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
take the test,if it comes back positive then you could have the baby and put it up for adoption.there is alot of responsible couples that can't have kid's that want one.
2007-10-29 08:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by momto3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go take a test
2007-10-29 08:16:13 · answer #10 · answered by donique33 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋