Am I Being Silly Over This???

Question

I am 6 months pregnant and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. About 3 months ago, I went through my boyfriends phone (with his permission) and found some texts from another female telling him she really likes him & wants to be with him. I went ballistic! I called her and told her I'm his girlfriend and expecting his child - she explained that she never knew about me but they were just friends & had known each other for years. I left it at that.

Now I went to my boyfriends house yesterday and his phone rang, it was his 'friend' (I knew this bcos I know her name but he doesn't know I know her name). From what I gathered her nan had died and she was crying bcos my boyfriend was saying she wouldn't want you to break down - be strong. He then said I'll come and see u 2mo babe, something inside me wanted to explode! I understand if they are friends and she needs support but something just doesn't seem right about their 'friendship'.

Answer 1

Why didn't you ask him right then and there who she was and why was he going to see her in 2 mos? If he had lied, then you would have gotten an answer to your question. Now you will just have to bring it up and confront him with your questions.

Answer 2

Well your bf is obviously lying to her if she is telling the truth by saying that she didnt know about you. You are 6 months pregnant and he just "forgot" to mention this to someone he has "been friends with for years?" Sounds like he is playing both of you girls.

Answer 3

i think there only FRIENDS but i think she has a crush on your boyfriend she propbley likes hagging out with him because hes good company , good to talk to or just to flirt with him and see if he wants to date her.... she said she doesnt know he has a girlfriend why!! did'nt your boyfriend tell her and that he has a baby on the way =] bless...... just act normal and do some spying u probley think its lame but hey do some spying and see what happens in the nxt week or so ....