what do u think??
i think as we have friendships
(some os my best friends are through net " menna" and " sweety")
so why love through net isn't ok ?
tell me ur openion
2007-10-28 22:30:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Egypt
friendship is sth,love is sth else....
i dnt say it's wrong..but you have to say it's an exception for the fact...
i got my best friends here as well..but you are talking about love and a relationship..
all i am saying that if it started online but then it took another shape and they took it to the next level..then it's reaaally ok..
but just playing and just keep messaging each other...i think sth is wrong,they need to meet at some point..to make the relation realistic...
and i do support the first kind of relations,because i've seen many sucessful relations that ended up with marriage...
2007-10-29 11:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
This depends on two main factors, I think.
The first is that both have to be frank 100% with each other, not less by a bit.
And the other thing is not to imagine or assume any thing so you build a whole imagined life totally different from the real one of your "future partner" and when you know the truth, you may not be able to go on as you would go on something different than you imagined you're involved in.
I just like to say that Nony is the one who grabbed my attention to this point, it's really important.
After all, the relation over the Internet is not sufficient, the real, face to face meeting will make things much more clear.
2007-10-29 14:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by Green visitor is back :D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can love through the internet..........but not Love by its actual meaning, you can say strong liking and admiration, that hopefully soon will turn to be a real Love :-)
and it depends on frankness, if you feel his frankness with you, then it's you who can then decide whether you really "Love" him or not !!
also the net is a mean like any other means to get to know someone.............but you can call it the less safest mean, still there are many successful ones !!!!!!!!
at the end, it all depends on the frankness, your character itself and how you think and weigh matters ??, also the most important thing which i'm always aware of, is that i shall never draw any picture to anyone i know through the net and haven't seen him............for what i draw is my pure imagination, and when you come and meet the guy for example, you might be shocked (although he might be a good looking guy) but still, he's not like the one drawn by your imagination !!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-29 15:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by . 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it depends on destiny, I think it's the same like marriage, you don't know the person you engaged to until marriage, then after responsibility, stress & having children you find out the truth
so yes u can engage to a person online but you will lack for a lots of feelings but as nona said, it only depends on the imagination like now, you don’t even realize how handsome I am ï or how strong I am ï just kidding , you sure know ï
any way, I have a 30 mt2 flat & botagaz be3een wa7da so what do u think :))))
2007-10-29 08:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by Fel Fel 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I met my lovely husband on line(skype).I was just chatting for fun,had met a lots of guys,but didn't trust any one,and i even didn't want to. Before we married,we never met,only on web camera.People told me than I'm completely nuts(i knew that),but i trust him and didn't listen to anyone(i never thought than i will do that). After 6 months chatting i flew to Egypt and we got married.In January 6th-08 it'll be 1 year.We love each-other to death from the first time we met(i know than it's crazy but it's true). The only problem right now,than we are not together(he is serving army in Egypt,and I'm in USA.),but i hope than will be together soon.
But to be honest; i have always been disagree about on-line relationship and i always will be.I WOULD NEVER RECOMMENDED TO ANYBODY!!! U never know what kind of idiots are there.
I know than you think than he married to me just for Green Card,but you're totally wrong.
P.S. My husband is the best thing that ever happened to me.
I have been in Egypt twice of this year,and going again in January or February(Insha-Alah). I can't wait to see my hubby.
2007-10-29 10:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by tetyana 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Simply, because most of such these relations depends on imagination & lying.
You talk with someone, you think that you love him so you started to imagin his look, his style & his life in general then you meet him & found that all your imagination is not true.
The other side that lies are very normal & pobular in these relations, so I don't belive in love oneline.
It's my own opinion may be it's not accepted by some people here but I said it before & I will say it again I belive in face to face communication in these realatons.
2007-10-29 07:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by Nony 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can meet someone on the net and fall in the love with them, but i don't think you can truly be "in love" with someone by just talking to them. Eventually love will require physical attention and therefore you will need to meet in person and that will determine if you truly love someone.
2007-10-29 10:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by Hayz's Peach - أماندا & حسن 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you think people say what they really mean on the net? do you really know someone when you chat with him on the net? you only get the idea he want's to give you!! I myself can't count on that.
people on the net are not real people, they are scatterd thoughts and alot of words. can you marry a guy on the net? a real relationship needs people to meet, not like this. its not wrong as much as it is useless.
sorry
2007-10-29 09:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by Arabian Dune 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
love is something if see,... is how u see...
if u think u can love online..fine happly accepted go on.. get some one.. and go on with..
But somehitnk... love is somehting starts wid LOVE @ first sight....
Some think , his/her lover should be be beautiful in looks..
some want a kind heart to love...
u see.. all have their own views...
so u go on... leave others....
But online u'll get 90% flirts....
hope ur are not offended by my answer its juz my opinion.....okay juz cooooooooolllllllll
2007-10-29 05:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by naveen19_srd 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ana basada2 fi al love through net 3adii bas law al ensan aly ana ba7abo yekoon howa kaman loves me too we yekon 3omro ma kadeb 3alaya fi 7aga we tab3an da hayban lama al mawdoo3 yeb2a 3ala al real we min 3`eer maykon 3ala al real bayban iza kan baykdeb 3alaya wala l2a we iza bay7abany bagad wala l2a kaman,, ana ma3takedsh ano fi ay moshkala we mish kol al nas bad we mish kolana zay ba3d ... yamkan yanga7 ! why not?? .. yamkan ba3d al nas mtatafeksh ma3aya bas da my own openion we yareet akon afdtek isa we i wish for u all the best :):):)
2007-10-29 09:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by nesma a 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋