But deep inside, I feel bad/sad to decline. I would think about it for days n spoil my mood. What can I do to stay sane in this world of madness.
2007-10-28 22:21:29 · 4 answers · asked by candie 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I hope you learn to overcome that feeling! Otherwise you will be taken advantage of very easily! I know cause I have the same problem. I have gotten myself in more predicaments over the years cause I couldn't say no! Many were self rewarding inside for a doing good thing, but way to many were just people taking advantage of my goodness and premeditated using..and I let them anyway. I'd always tell myself it was cause I really wanted to be a good person and someday my efforts would return rewards, but now I realize it was just a weakness!! You have to learn how to distinguish the difference between the users and the real need to be of assistance . But please don't stop doing stuff to help others that would be tragic...I think we truly need to help others for our own wellbeing. I does feel good inside!
2007-10-28 22:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've never faced such a problem,i never felt bad about saying no
maybe u r a better persone then myself but u really shouldn't feel stupid because of people who dont think about ur own feelings and needs when they ask something imposible
besides,thiis is a jungle,think about ur oqn survival
2007-10-29 05:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say no,but sometimes you have to step up and do it,believe me it causes more misery in the long run,if you agree to something you are not happy with.
2007-10-29 05:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the serenity happen
in your own way
2007-10-29 05:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋