you need to do to insure you keep you child, i am the mother.
2007-10-28 19:08:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The first step is to stop thinking of yourself. Now both of you have to focus on the child and doing whatever takes to make sure the child you SHARE feels loved and wanted by both of you.
You need to work with the father, try to set up equal time between the two of you, always get along in front of the child, never speak badly of the other in front of the child... and most importantly NEVER... NEVER!!! underestimate the importance of your child have BOTH parents in it's life.
You are not anymore important or any less important than the child's father. Being the mother doesn't make you better or special.
2007-10-28 19:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be civil, be adult and talk to the father!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If he won't have a conversation, get a lawyer that will be the intermediary. The parent that is going to provide the best environment for the child should be the custodial parent. That doesn't mean the mother is automatically the best parent for the job. You haven't given enough detail for a better answer.
2007-10-28 19:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do. The judge gets to decide what's best for the child. Go talk to your lawyer.
2007-10-28 19:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do...custody/support are determined by the court as to what is more beneficial for the child...not the parent.
2007-10-28 21:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a drastic decision. This will screw up your childs life as well as your grand child. Maybe I can help
tlindsy3417@gmain.com
2007-10-28 19:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by tlindsey3417@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the mother, odds are you will keep them. Get legal help.
2007-10-28 19:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋