Why did yall trash me and dog me for nothing?All of those messages talking about how I should shut up about my choices....How could you?Why?You hate on me the same way you are hated on here.What excuse do you have?WHY?
2007-10-28 18:55:21 · 9 answers · asked by Rick 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Adam,
You need to calm down. You need to contact people in person to help you get through the changes you are going through now.
You need IN person, PERSON TO PERSON SUPPORT.
Please get in contact with your local GLBT community center and ask for assistance and counseling. Or call your doctor or a trusted family member or friend. Contact a phone support line for a referral. Do not shut up about your choices. Open up about them to another person, in person, now! No one here hates you. It is easy for misunderstandings to happen in a forum like this. I am not saying to go away from here. Please stay here. But all I am saying is that you need to also reach out beyond here so you can talk in person to someone who can help you feel better. As you said above, what excuse do you have?
Well, what excuse do you have for not reaching out for someone in person right now? Please do it for your sake!
2007-10-28 19:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I never could hate you Adam. I know we've had our differences since the beginning but that didn't stop me from contacting you and being friends with you. I hope you know that. And I do understand what you've been saying for the past day about the choices you make in your life. Some people are not as open and accepting, and that's a fact of life. You have your own life, and you're just telling us about it, and I respect that and I actually admire how you can decide on just about everything. I wish I could do what you can, but of course, as separate individuals, a lot of us would still insist that our sexuality was never a choice for us. It just is...
I don't have any excuses as I told you, I don't hate you... I'll give you hugs the same way that you do. Take care okay? ;)
2007-10-29 06:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by J. McCoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a strong word, but you threaten the strongest defense the gay community has for itself. Don't get me wrong, I support LBGT rights choice or no choice, seing as I fall into the latter category myself. But think about what your arguement about choices implies, even if its not exactly what you are trying to say. Also, on a much more personal note you've said some very cold and nasty things about us transfolk, maybe you should have taken the T of your question...
2007-10-29 02:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I didn't and don't hate you, you have to remember that you will get unpleasant people that will give you hurtful and derogatory comments, don't take it to heart and don't let it stuff up your life, your choices about your lifestyle are your concern only, so don't let it bug, just keep on enjoying your life as you want to live it.
2007-10-29 03:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by mrlonely_solonely_immrlonely 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a Christian gay man, I don't hate you. I love you. I'm a little confused by what you're trying to accomplish on here, though. If you're trying to convince me that I chose to be be gay and I'm supposed to ignore what happened in my own life, then you've failed and you'll also fail with most other gay people. Also, if you speak with less profane and crude language, as you did in this question, you might get kinder responses.
See the nasty comment you get from Tara J? This is the kind of treatment you promote by your contention that you choose to be gay? The immediate response by homophobes will be to choose to not be gay. Where are you then in your argument?
2007-10-29 02:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by Michael B - Prop. 8 Repealed! 7 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Don't worry about what other people think. Only you know who you are.
2007-10-29 02:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your gay and i accept ur word 4 it ,dont b puy off by these bigots
2007-10-29 12:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by tasty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Micheal B- I couldn't of said it better.
2007-10-29 02:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by River 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
mmmmm I do not understand, Sorry.
2007-10-29 20:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by elkinpi17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋