Every time I respond to a question and I express the pleasure I find in having sex WITH MY HUSBAND -and no one else- there are people who immediately take away points...I couldn't care less about the s.t.u.p.i.d. points, but I tend to be brutally honest (or blunt) in my answers. I won't say I'm a saint or pretend to be a prude just so that people "like" me. I'm loyal, faithful to my husband, but I don't feel I have to hide the fact that I enjoy sex VERY MUCH. Is it wrong of me, being a grown, married woman and all, to be so open about my sexuality? I've never used foul language or have shown any disrespect by using an inappropriate vocabulary...
2007-10-28 18:46:24 · 17 answers · asked by MiaMonique 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oops! Excuse my ignorance. I saw the "thumbs down" and some numbers, and I assumed people were taking points away. But as I said, That's not what annoyed me. It's just the fact that we have been taught that there's something wrong with enjoying sex. I would never -purposely- try to offend anyone, but I won't pretend to be something that I'm not, either. Thanks for illustrating me on the "point" stuff...
2007-10-28 19:00:04 · update #1
i wouldn't worry about it. There are plenty of people who are all righteous and feel that sex is only to make babies and even then you shouldn't even enjoy it, and then there are those who realize the joy of it.
They can't really take your points away. Stick by what you say and don't care.
Even I, who is for sex before marriage manages to get some thumbs up :) . It really just depends.
2007-10-28 18:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by jelly tots 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you see where this is going, Michelle? Your question tells what a weird and denying society we live in so that they can support the shack ups and the alternate lifestyles. I have seen bill after bill rejected that supported husband/wife marriage, and that has nothing to do with alternate lifestyles. It did have to do with that agenda through the Liberals, however! It is not easy for a husband or wife to stay faithful as it is not something that seems to be respected in our time. Instead of saying, "good for her or him", they feel disgust for our faithfulness! It will not be long when they will be against others that have the giving spirit such as Mother Teresa has had in her life. We live in a society that is becoming sick! Good is now bad and bad is good! That idea started big time in the 50's and got much worse. I want to say to you, God bless you for being faithful... it is not that common today or supported by the Liberals that some vote for! Now we have a chance to become closer and closer to what the U.S.S.R. had years ago with the only woman candidate for President. Why? It supports many of our lifestyles of today! Again, God bless and stay faithful in spite of what others are doing! Good for you! Earl
2007-10-28 19:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well it happened to me to and I figured out that there are some question which are so sensitive to the gov. laws which perhaps are forbiden to be shared with the public. My question I asked back then was deleted and got an email of violation with I disregarded and forgot about it. Such question which the feel are too sensitive, they will erase them for the public view and at the same time you may lose some point. Don't get discouraged lets have some fun as much as we can here at yahoo answers
2007-10-28 19:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its great you have a wonderful positive attitude toward sex so do i but i'm afraid most on here don't understand that then others like myself that know that you probably haven't been married that long maybe 1 to 5 years which isn't that long and i know sooner or later you will experience the ups and downs of life that affect the sex life.
2007-10-28 18:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't really matter what you say. If you tell the asker something that they don't want to hear, you will never get voted best answer. Most people only want to be agreed with, to support their own ego.
If you got a high % you are a brown noser.
2007-10-28 18:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you give us an example of what you're talking about? As far as I know, no one can take your points away except for Yahoo! Staffers and that would be because of a violation of the rules. Tell us what happened..... No one should feel they cannot be honest or forthright with their answers.
2007-10-28 18:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since u asked "when someone gives an answer" so i can tell u, somepeople dont choose the right words and come across as being sleazy! but since ur saying u never use wrong language then maybe some are conservative and dont like or understand ur openness!?
2007-10-28 18:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by sab 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a private matter, everyone does not want to hear how sexual you are. There's people with real problems and need some relief to their problems. I understand that you are happy about getting laid and loving that fact of being laid.
2007-10-28 19:12:06 · answer #8 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you two enjoy is wonderful...it is to bad it offends other people. I am not sure what type of questions you asked to get points taken away...
2007-10-28 18:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by missyj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is refreshing to hear of a married couple who enjoy every aspect of being together. You give me hope that there is someone out there for me. I have been divorced for 5 years, haven't dated. But you have shown me that there is a glimmer of a chance for me. Thanks!
2007-10-28 19:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by booper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋