share your views of what you think of premarital sex is... i need for my research paper... =)
2007-10-28 17:56:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I believe that premarital sex is natural. Sex is sex whether you have it before you make a big commitment or not. Nothing of it is wrong. Its something society decided to claim as wrong so therefore generations down the road to most its still considered this ungodly sin. Sex is something that the human body desires. And to shut that desire off because you haven't made a huge commitment, is a decision that some people make. Not all people. I believe that sex is healthy. And you should not shut down your physical needs because in the Bible it was supposed to be different. Not everyone believes in god the way Christians do. And not everyone believes that premarital sex is bad. I think sex is a physical bond between someone you are attracted to in any category. You shouldn't have to sign up to be with someone the rest of your life to share a sexual bond. Thats ridiculous.
2007-10-28 18:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sawyer 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Premarital sex has been a contributor to dis-functional relationships, and commitments. It's become a decadence of society, and the family bond. Self respect and moral values has gone out the door. More bastard children are born in our days, than any other time before. Little consideration has been placed on the reason for sex, and that is for responsible pro-creation. Many people now simply consider sex as just a recreation tool. There is no consideration as to how this will affect the children that they produce.
Is there any wonder why crime has climbed? The family bond has disappeared, so the children don't get reared properly. They grow up thinking that anything is ok. There are no bindings or restraints to self gratifaction. And the results: just look at our jails. They are overloaded! And of course, the climbing use of drugs is destroying the fabric of our society.
People with spiritual values are more likely to consider recreational sex as taboo. They also look ahead and consider their eternal spiritual lives after they leave this Earth
2007-10-28 18:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by zonofabee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think the young men and women in our society now most of them have bad morals,because I read on the news paper that about 70 % of young men and women have premarital sex experiences.Free sex in western countries is a usual practice in everyday of life.They based only on each other want it without force.The rate of abortion increased every year and they want it to be legalized.HIV/AIDS disease spread out all over the world. caused by freesex who often replace his/her partner and homosex or lesbian.They used birth control pills for preventing their pregnant..Religion is forgetted by them.I read that someone astonished to know that a 23 year old single woman who is still virgin in USA.In line with islamic teaching adultery and fornication are prohibited.If they did it they will have great sins.God spoke in the Qur'an that someone who did adultey should be punished by 100 times of whipping and for fornication should be punis hed by stone throwing until to death.
Freesex and premarital sex are not allowed in islamic count ries.Sex can be made only through a formal marriage
.Abortion is not allowed too,because it is the same with kill
ing the baby.It is a criminal act which should be punished..Premarital sex gives a bad effect to women if they should have an abortion. and they will be unvirgin anymore along the time.The would be their husbands who honoured sacred virginity will be disappointed.
2007-10-28 18:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with pre marital sex.
It all comes down to religious beliefs. the idea of being married before having sex comes from religious texts.
If you think sex is evil then premarital sex might be wrong, but if you see sex as a healthy part of the human condition then there is nothing wrong with premarital sex!
2007-10-28 18:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by Rip W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im all for premarital sex.....i aint waiting until i can get married, i doubt that its gonna happen in my lifetime. This probably wasnt the best section to ask this in tho. Its a bit biased really. Lol
2007-10-28 19:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by Steffie_crumpet89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a natural instinct. Our cultures evolved a system where it was illegal if happens before marriage but in those cultures marriages were arranged when boys and girls were too young and pre-marital sex was not needed. In modern societies where carreer has become very important, boys and girls do not like to marry in early age. They want to stand on their two feet before marrying and raising children. So in our times pre marital sex has become a necessity.
2007-10-28 18:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by ashok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Premarital sex?? It happens!! Its uncommon now days to come across people who will not have sex until marriage.
2007-10-28 18:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by Christine T 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
All well and good, as long as proper precaution has been taken. Since most premarial sex isn't marital sex because full commitment has not yet been established, we don't need accident kids running around in awkward if not dysfunctional families.
2007-10-28 18:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by kagato23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's kinda the norm here in 21st century America, as is divorce and children born out of wedlock. Perhaps that's still taboo in other countries like in Asia, the Middle East, & Africa.
2007-10-28 18:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by The Glorious S.O.B. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is typical of the "TRY BEFORE YOU BUY" attitude in this country--true of almost everything, not just sex. Why do you think FREE SAMPLES are so popular and everyone wants "something for nothing" ?
2007-10-28 18:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋