both people are of age and are using protection.
are you ok with this, why or why not?
2007-10-28 17:08:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
how is it selling yourself if you are having sex for the pleasure, not the money?
2007-10-28 17:13:26 · update #1
having sex and making love are 2 completely different things to me. making love is something you do with someone you love, having sex is something you do for fun.
2007-10-28 17:16:13 · update #2
i think you should atleast be choosey who u sleep with..and its quite risky cuz well you know all the diseases you can get,BUT theres nothing wrong with an OCCASSIONAL sexcapade!! that is if u r FORSURE careful
2007-10-28 17:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by hezbutt 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
No I do not, though I use to and by that mean I have done it 4 times in my past, but no longer. I do not want to meet a great woman and fall in love with her only to find out she has been with a bunch of guys. I think it would be unfair for me to ask that of a woman and still have sex just to have sex. I think there should be a committed relationship where both see a good possibility for a long term commitment. Girls need to worry about this even more so than men do, I hate to say it but it is true. Guys do not want a girl that has been with a bunch of other guys. Oh, they will have sex with them and date them for a little while but that's it. While at the same time guys feel it is OK to have sex with anyone, that is somewhat pretty. Yeah I know a double standard. That's why I have not and do not have one night flings or a friend with benefits’ anymore. I had a friend with benefits’ when this hit me, that I would not want to be with a girl who has a friend with benefits‘. I mean that's not good either. So I do have sex, but only when I am in a committed relationship. I mean that is not really right either, but I do it. I am at lest not going out and sleeping with one girl one week and some different girl 2 weeks latter. I have friends that do, but I just feel it's not right. I would like to find and be with a woman that has not been around the block, so why would I expect a girl to be OK with me if I have been. That's just how I see it. =)
2007-10-29 01:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as the "relationship" is mutually consenting, and you are both using protection for STDs and birth control. People need to understand that they alone are responsible for their actions, and that there are consequences for such.
However, I have been raised Catholic, and I believe that such relationships are best when in the sanctity of marriage. Therefore, I would never make such a decision, given my personal beliefs and values.
2007-10-29 00:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by ToniSB 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋
No I don't believe it is right. I think you need to make sex a little more special than just a release and I think you need to respect your body a bit more than that. No one respects someone that does not respect themself.
2007-10-29 00:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by towanda 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
you'll get tired of it, somehow someday!!
so, save all the time & look for that someone special!!
& to really answer your Q, Im not so OK with it...at some point it just involves morality & principles that I dont think its simply right doing it!!
2007-10-29 00:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Go ahead, help spread AIDS. Making love and having sex arn't two completely different things either, it's just two different names for one activity.
2007-10-29 00:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 4⤋
I wouldn't personally do it. Because it's against what I believe is morally okay for ME to do. No judgement on anyone else though.
2007-10-29 00:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by vellavelicious 4 · 5⤊ 2⤋
no because sleeping around can get up a bad representation of who people think you are or it could be just seen as your easy
2007-10-29 00:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by Dessert♦Queen 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I don't think so. I think it's immoral. As you get older you will find out for yourself. Right now my opinion probably wont matter.
We all have our skeletons
2007-10-29 00:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by staymay 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I'm totally ok with it....it's none of my business what people do or don't do in their personal lives
2007-10-29 00:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋