can't figure this girl out....?

Question

5 months ago when we met at our gym,we had some pleasant talk but after that no more than saying hi and bye and maybe a little chat.Now after a couple more convos,she seems to be more open with me,will pass by me alot,will be more amiable and friendly with me etc....does she just want something?What's the deal?

Answer 1

sometimes, women (not "girl") need to know you before they are actually friends with you.

Answer 2

Well first of all maybe she likes you as more then a friend and is unsure how to approach you. If you like her more then a friend i would go up to her and tell you how you feel, but if you don't i would just ask her what is up with her lately and why is she acting the way she is? Always remember that honesty is best...lol. So approach her and let you know how you feel Once you both get what ever is going on off your chest I think you both will feel a little better. I hope this helps you! : )

Answer 3

Hey, she's fishing dummy. Ask her out for coffee or the local juice bar. It's called First Step. If she says she involved, then she's just being friendly and that's as far as the relationship will go, conversations at the gym. That's cool, those places can be rather boring, nice to talk once in awhile.

Answer 4

You have an awful lot of 'covos' in gyms, don't you ~ and you continue to report them back her to your mother ship, don't you.

What do you think your Supervisor is going to say about all these 'convos' when you should be publicly berating her and then, after the usual mind games, you have her forcible ejected from a Public Facility, Jim!

You are failing in your sworn duty to uphold the aims and sanctity of this mission.

For that, you will be having your Library Cards revoked and publicly torn up.

Sash. Commander, Yahoo MissionShip to Earth: 007

Answer 5

The only way you are going to know for sure is if you ask her out for a drink or something to eat. Just say it casually like after my workout I was going to grab a bite to eat, do you fancy coming along. If she says yes then just be cool and don't expect too much. If she says no try asking her on another occasional and if she knocks you back three times then she isn't interested

Answer 6

just be friendly and be your self if you want things to go further it may or may not get to know her first too many men act then the girls go off them,and be a good listener this is what friends do better to have a few good friends male and female than have 1 girl friend with friends your never lonely good luck

Answer 7

ok, here's my theory...5 months ago you two meet and she liked you but she had just begun dating someone and things were heating up, ya know? so she keeps it cool with you, but soon realizes he's not the one. now she's looking at you again. either she's a nice girl who dates exclusively or she's trying to soothe her own bruised ego after the other guy dumped her. go with your gut man...

Answer 8

TALK TO HER!!!!!!!! be nice, girls like that. BUT, dont be creepy or ask too many questions about her, just follow the flow of the conversation and you might find yourself sitting across from her in a nice restaurant!!!!!!

Answer 9

maybe you should make the first move, flirt more and dont be scared the worst that can happen is being rejected , it happens to everyone, do you want to look back in ten years and wish you made a move?

Answer 10

Asking her out might be nice. If she's open to you maybe you should take it up to the next level.

Answer 11

ask her out for a cup of coffee, or maybe a juice bar. then see how it goes from there. she just may be waiting for you to make a move to show her that ur interested in her.