I went on a 2nd date w/ 25 y/o good looking guy that revealed his "deepest secret" to me volutarily (I'm 25 too), which is that he swears he is still a virgin. But he told me was always out on party scene for last several yrs, and he had 6-yr relationship since HS and gf never gave it up to him and ended up sleeping w/ another guy. He was single for another 3 yrs. I find it hard to believe. He made a move at me by kissing me and holding hands at end of date. When he asked if he should call or email, i said email is impersonal, yet he still said he will email. He has been emailing and calls only to confirm a date. He said he wants to get to know me, but y wouldn't he call? Is he BSing about his virginity? Will a guy go that far to say he is a virgin just to get laid? I'm relationship type and won't sleep with a guy til months later. He said if i don't believe him, i can ask his buddies. How can I tell if he is telling the truth- see if he sticks around after 3 or 4 months?
2007-10-28 14:38:42 · 5 answers · asked by Svetlana Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He might be telling you this, frankly, to get into your pants. It's odd for him to ask you to check with his buddies about his virginity. That's just not a guy thing to do, unless his buddies are in a plan with him. Revealing his "deepest secret" on a second date? It's suspicious!
2007-10-28 14:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he's full of crap. If he randomly brought up his virginity during a date, he's obviously trying to "swoon" you into thinking that he's "sensitive" by being a virgin, when he is in fact being a pig over the whole matter.
Judging by his appalling dating tactics I wouldn't be surprised if he really was a virgin. ;)
2007-10-28 21:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by sillygostly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to say if he is telling the truth. You will have to wait and see. His friends will tell you whatever it is that he wants them to tell you.
2007-10-28 21:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
remember this; MEN WILL DO ANYTHING TO GET LAID! but there is a slim chance he could be legit....I just don't believe it
2007-11-01 21:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dunno but i bet his buddies wouldnt tell you if he was fibbing !!! be careful and good luck .
2007-10-28 21:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋