anyone endure a broken heart ?

Question

why do you feel so much pain when you break up with someone you love ?can you sleep or do you stay awake for hours

Answer 1

Yes, and it still hurts.
My heart was broken 8/20/07 just 12 days after our 4 year anniversary. I couldn't sleep or eat, I lost 15 pounds. I am eating better now and am taking some sleep aid.
I believe the pain is from the loss of that person which was a part of us.
When we are with a person we love a part of them becomes a part of us and a part of us becomes a part of them. When we lose that person we lose part of our self and have to try and rebuild that part of us that is now missing.
Rebuilding is really hard to do and hurts because just seeing something can remind us of the person, a smell, an activity, a song, we lose our focus on things/life.
I am not sure how long it takes to heal a broken heart but I wish it would stop hurting.
If you are suffering from a broken heart yourself, I wish you the best and hope that your heart heals soon.
Remember that you are not alone and there are many of us out here with broken hearts also.
Good Luck.

Answer 2

Through my marriage i have been trying to lose weight,you know lose a pound gain two back that's how it was. My husband left me and the pounds dropped off that was the only good part about him leaving me. I couldn't eat all i did was cry,hell i didn't even change the sheets on my bed for 6 months because it would take his smell away now how sick was that. I am a night person but when he did that to me i was in bed at 9:00 so the heart ache would stop.
I was a depressed zombie toothpick that's what i felt like.

Answer 3

Going trough it now, I have lost 15 pounds, can't sleep, barley make it to work. he left me for a 27 year old co-worker, he is 42 I am 47, I should not experience this in my age, we were together for 7 years. He told me he tried to love me again, but it wasn't the same so he left me again after 5 weeks. He is back with her and as happy as can be. Its been 4 weeks Wednesday. SO SO hurt, no directions in my life, crying is my best friend, depressed and so lonely. I have lost his love and he is happy go lucky with his new girl.
NOBODY and nothing can help you, the only thing might be time. I catch myself daydreaming, wanting ot go by his and her house. So unbeliefable hurt.
he and his girl are cable guys for knology I am a registered nurse. They have so much in common. I am left out in the cold and miserable, I wish you could come over and we try to cheer each other up, so many tears I don't think there is anyone else for me.

I hope your pain goes away and you and i find peace .
sending my love.

Answer 4

I truly feel for you. Heartache is one of the hardest emotions to get over. But it won't last forever,and almost everyone goes through it so don't feel alone. There are several ways to make heartache a little easier to deal with. Go out with your friends don't just sit and let it bring you down, keep busy doing things you enjoy. I promise this will help because I've been through it a few times myself. Always remember theres someone out there that will make you happy. You just have to go out whether it be the grocery store or the gym you will find someone that will help you mend that broken heart. Do not look for love in a bar or beer joint or you're setting yourself up for another heartache. Those places are filled with one night standers, and you don't need any diseases . There is no PIECE of a** worth your life, PLEASE REMEMBER THAT! I wish you luck in your future and I've felt your pain, it will finally fade and you'll be okay. YOUR FRIEND LISA

Answer 5

Its amazing how much love effects your heart. My husband and I are trying to work things out between us, however, we are having some serious troubles and looks like one of us is going to fold in the towel soon. I am not able to sleep or eat... Concentration is not there and you just feel so out of sorts. As the one girl said you have to go through it to start the healing process... I guess it is just a way of life.

Answer 6

Oh boy does it hurt. I think I stayed awake for a year. That only stopped because I managed to win her back.
Two kids later, I'm now sleeping ok.

Good luck, and yes, time does heal, just not quick enough

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Answer 8

If it didn't hurt it wouldn't have been love and yep it hurts like hell, no sleep, can't eat, lose interest in everything but time takes care of most things, take it each day at a time, try not to dwell(Huh as if that's possible) try not to ask the questions 'IF' & 'Why'? they only make matters worse. Good Luck and Keep Smiling its the only way

Answer 9

Hi Chappy...at that point of time, I thought how come the sun still rising in the morning.. then I understood the meaning of the old song..."why does the sun go on shining...why does the sea rush shore..." or something like that..

but still I was able to sleep..only lightly...until I read the holy book which changed my view on life..

Answer 10

Yah, it really hurts. I know how you feel, empty and without any purpose in your life. I felt that way when my g/f passed away. However I found that by going to work/school, putting my whole self into that, I was able to survive. Then after 6 months, I stopped seeing her on every street corner. After a couple of years, I was able to come out of it and get on with my life.