2007-10-28 13:57:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
men have different brains, so if he is busy with some other issue or activity... that is normal.
Mine does that all the time to me and the kids.
They even make fun of him for example when he plays on line chess... he's out !!!! they stand right next to him and ask him:
Dad, can I smoke pot? Can I drink some tequila? and he nods and says aha yeah...
so don't worry. and if you need to discuss some important matter, well tell him to concentrate, find a time he is not busy, after dinner or so and be sure he is 100% there in his mind.
Men are funny creatures and their brains are not so multifacetic as ours!!! LOL
2007-10-28 14:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by GreenEyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means you can always tell him you told him and he must not have been paying attention. Then takje advantage of him and that should have him start to pay more attention.
Try this- Go out and spend a chunk of money. When he calls you out on it say you told him about it but he must not have been listening. Shouldn't take long for him to start to come around if you keep this up.
2007-10-28 15:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by ghostwriter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes normal. I dont know of any husband that doesnt half listen to their wifes. Its not that men arent interested in what women are saying, its just that you women always have to give us the long version of everything.
2007-10-28 14:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by pumper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means he`s a man and it`s normal behavior. With men you gotta kepp it short simple and to the point otherwise their mind goes off to other places. Unless of course you are trying to have a serious conversation about the relationship and serious stuff then you really need to ask him to pay attention. Otherwise if it`s regular everyday crap about what`s going on with whom and what you did and blah blah blah, they tend to tune you out.
2007-10-28 14:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is your husband....we are not good listeners by nature...its one of our (many) flaws...I am a bad listener, but my wife knows I would do anything for her...you have to admit when your husband talks alot sometimes you zone out, come on be honest. Please try to consider this. I dont know you or him, but this does not alyays mean he's not interested in you.
MYTHOUGHTS, you hit the nail on the head! we are VERY simple creatures
2007-11-01 13:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guy have a short attention spand. Dont beat around the bush. Just tell him the facts.
2007-10-28 14:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by That Special Someone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, at least he's half listening - better than not at all !
Read, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus - this might explain some things fo ryou.
2007-10-28 14:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never met a man that gives a woman his undivided attention while she was talking, unless the conversation involves sex or food.
2007-10-28 14:03:11 · answer #8 · answered by Shelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Plane and simple it means hes a real man
2007-10-28 14:06:16 · answer #9 · answered by dad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men always listen one tenth of what you have to say.
Also they never listen when you expect them to be concentrationg on what you have to say.
The catch "try and talk to him when he is multitasking". Its strange and funny but studies show that, you can get your message across.
2007-10-28 14:03:20 · answer #10 · answered by Romi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋