I just found out that I pregant my dad is going to kill me What should I do have abortion or keep it . I want to keep it but what do you think
2007-10-28 13:43:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Um okay "sexy", here is what you do...
Tell Pops, cork it in the mean time, and next time keep those little legs of your closed. Being 13 isn't an excuse for being stupid.
Oh yeah... keep the baby... or atleast give the baby to a good home (by the way, a good home isn't a trash can... which is where your baby would end up if you got an abortion.)
2007-10-28 13:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by c 3 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Keep it. PLEASE keep it. Did you know that as far along as you most likely are (5-6 weeks) your already has a beating heart? You're baby is growing so fast and if you are even thinking of having an abortion, first go look at the developement on your baby. Look for a pregnancy help center or an abortion alternative center. I am a client advocate for a pregnancy help center in texas. No matter what age or circumstance we NEVER advise a girl to have an abortion. No matter how far along you are, you are taking a life. Also, there are alot of bad things that can happen with an abortion. Did you know that the procedure (D&C) can cause permanent scarring preventing you from ever having children? Did you know that you could hemorrhage (bleed excessively)? There is so much joy with a baby. It's alot of responsibility, but if you're pregnant, you can do it. Please do it. Don't forget about adoption. That is a good way to ensure a good life for your child and is a wonderful gift to a couple that can't have children. There are many options in adoption. You can choose the parents, choose what rights you want, ex.) do you want your child to grow up knowing you? or do you not want to have anything to do with him/her? Also, be sure to check a local pregnancy help center. Our center is actually building a maternity home for mothers who want to keep thier child but have nowhere else to go. Please, if you are still thinking of having an abortion, read the facts. Don't ask the abortion agency, they want you to have an abortion so they get the money, they'll try to talk you into it. Ask someone who can give you true facts. Many women I've talked to that had an abortion said their lives were never the same.
2007-10-28 21:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by serenityw2004 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well sexy you have a big problem you are very young and pregnant.Yes your father is going to kill you.It's really hard to advice in a situation like this.First what kind of relationship you have with your father.Talk to him or find someone you can thrust and let them know.Sexy do it soon before is to late. It's not easy raising a child at 13 and not have a job.
2007-10-28 20:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by scorpio 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should keep the baby and tell you dad about it. Having an abortion is killing the baby.
2007-10-29 04:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by mizzpretti 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find the right time tell your dad. Have a person that you trust or are close to go with you. He's going to find out sooner or later. If you think you can be responsible, then keep your baby. Good Luck!!!!!!
2007-10-28 22:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by Kanesha J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adoption.
Do you have any idea how many couples are longing for a child of their own, but are unable to have one naturally?
Abortion would take away the chance for that one couple who is praying for your baby to be part of their family.
You can always choose open adoption, where you choose the parents for your baby to have, and also are allowed to visit/see pictures, and letters from the family as the child grows up.
You are so young to keep the baby yourself. Your parents would end up raising it, and you would completely lose your childhood.
If you choose abortion, you will regret it for many years to come.
2007-10-28 21:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Me personally im totally against abortion but i dont know what you or your family thinks about that but the hard part is telling your parents and i would get that over with asap. You can tell him face to face or write him a letter explaining your situation, but as far as whether you should have an abortion or keep it is going to have to be entirely up to you because i or anybody else cant make that decision for you. I hope everything works out Good Luck!!!!!!!
2007-10-28 20:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 3⤋
First off, abortion is murder. By the second week the baby already has a spine, and by the third, a heartbeat. So, obviously, i am not for abortion. Consider adoption. A way better option...personally, you probably aren't ready for a baby.
2007-10-28 21:07:11 · answer #8 · answered by christy s 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
"How old are you I'm 21 years old and just got out of a bad relationship"
This is what she wrote in another answer so shes not 13
2007-10-29 02:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by SiLeNcEd for the unborn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you were a 14 year old virgin a few minutes ago, I think the pregnancy is the least of your problems. Obviously you've been caught in some form of time rift...
2007-10-28 20:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋