Well... Okay. I did something kind of bad that I am not very proud of. I have been feeling kind of weird about my boyfriend lately, and I couldn't really place why.. So I installed a keylogger on my computer and got his password... And I was reading some of his e-mails..
They are just recent, to a girl named asiah. When he writes one to her he titles it "asiah<3" "ms. pretty cheerleader" etc.. Look what he says
"i gotta go but i shall talk to you later pretty girl(f) xox"
"maybe sometime we can be cheer partners and you can stradle me again;) "
"i knew you were cool and chillen. but i never had any idea how chillen you were unill just recently. we can chill or go for a walk for whatever"
I know he used to really like asiah but he didn't think that she would go for a guy like him. Bah....I'm a terrible person, I know.. ivading his privacy.. But i can't stop thinking about him playing me like a fool.
2007-10-28 12:54:05 · 10 answers · asked by . 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, you know what he's doing, so now confront him! If he denies, then he does not respect you, so break up with that loser, sounds like he is getting some from her!
2007-10-28 13:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he obviously has been sending you signs things are not going very well with you two, maybe you should have asked him, however, you still needed to know what was going on... You need to confront them together and tell him and her to stay out of your life, and tell them you know what is going on with them and you didn't want to believe it until you found out recently for sure. Tell them that you feel bad for finding this out and all and have been regretting your snoopiness but you had very high scepticism about your boyfriend and you don't appreciate the betrayl or misleading relationship. Pack his crap up have it in you car (what ever you can fit) and take it all out and leave it with them, tell him a time and date or where he can get the rest of it... personally you knew he liked her, then you shouldn't trust her... if a girl sees a way to take a man who is in a relationship, she will! MOST times, not all... well I hope you do what is really right... I went through something kinda similar to what you are going through... too much to explain on that though!
2007-10-28 13:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by sweetmommy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Did That Once,
and It Totally Hurt Me Too,
What I did Was Talk With Him, I Ended Up Forgiving Him,
But I Think You Just Should Talk To Hum.
2007-10-28 12:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by Plain and Simple Chick. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if your privacy was being invaded? That is probably the guilt you feel. Learn your lesson and don't do it again. When in doubt just ask, it is possible you will get hurt either way.
2007-10-28 13:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by beckaanne2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he met her on the internet, she's probably an old guy faking him out.
It sounds like the two of you are in for some deep.... conversations.
You are a terrible person. He's no better. The two of you seem made for each other.
Hope you work it out.
2007-10-28 13:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by Biff 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a little late to worry about what you did. And you did learn something about your boyfriend, didn't you!! Perhaps you'd want to re-think your relationship and whether it would be good to stay in it or let it go. I don't think you have anything to gain by telling him what you did.
2007-10-28 12:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is some serious bullshit. Drop him like a hot rock, girl.
pretty cheerleader? Please. He has about as much game as the blue power ranger.
You seem well spoken; you're way too good for him.
Trinitie
2007-10-28 12:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by Trinitie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..hackin his email was probly not best choice..u shud hav confrontd him on the problem and if after he answered u still in yur heart feel doubt..then he probly did something wrong
2007-10-28 12:58:31 · answer #8 · answered by Frank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u invade his privacy and now you feel bad good because there may not be anything going on
2007-10-28 13:00:56 · answer #9 · answered by alsandyou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL DID YOU FIND OUT WHAT YOU WANTED TO KNOW? AND WAS IT WORTH IT?
2007-10-28 12:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by wenwen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋