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yesterday he spent 5 hours playing football with his buddies, which was fine. But today I asked him if he wanted to go with me to some stores and he said no. Im all "feelings" cause we havent really done anything together. But when its his buddies, right away he says yes. Whats going on? Am I over reacting? He broke up with me and im wondering if this is really it.

2007-10-28 12:26:06 · 12 answers · asked by BeAuTiFuL 6 in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

12 answers

first of all, if you are counting the hours he spends with his buddies then it is a pretty good sign that you are feeling neglected and resentful - it may mean that he just enjoys kickin it with his buddies and doesnt wanna shop with his girl. it may mean that he doesnt want to reject them but will you because he thinks you will understand more than they will.. it could be, it may be, it might be a million things but you will only know the scoop when HE TELLS YOU. ask him what is going on, if anything. maybe you are overreacting,maybe he does want some space. communication is the key - you will find the answer about his feelings when you ask HIM not strangers on yahoo. ppl will tell u he is blowing you off for a prank, the truth is WE dont know him or you OR anything about your personal relationship so dont depend on anyone here. the one thing i will say that might be relevant cuz it is good for any and all relationships (yours or mine) is that you should have your own interests, friends, life aside from urs w/him. do your thing too, keep busy, dont be too needy/clingy - a lil independence aside from each other is a turn on. be strong enough to stand alone - just let him know you smile bigger when standing together. :) best of luck to you both!

2007-10-28 12:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by lifesaclassroom 4 · 0 0

Don't call him back. He needs to have some time to seriously miss you. Don't ask him to go shopping with you if he comes back to you. Guys don't think they have to do that, unless their mothers have taught them that true gentlemen do things that interest their girlfriends/wives. Just imagine being married to someone who has all the time in the world for his own games and no time for you. That's the kind of caveman husband this guy will make. I'd say find someone new, if you can. This guy is a loser.

2007-10-28 19:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by Aiden 6 · 3 0

Honestly, there's sings of breaking up or he's not interested. A guy can do so many things that you may realize that he's not interested or he broke up with you. I f he is no longer into you than I'd say drop it(drop him like a hot potato) and move on. Don't call him or anything. Move on with your life and don't made it hard on yourself.

2007-10-28 19:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1 0

dont call him back!
wtf..he prefers to spend time with his buddies than with you!
he doesnt deserve no freakin` phone call
just let it go and move on
<3

2007-10-28 19:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by W E E N i E 3 · 3 0

If he broke up with you then yes it's over. Don't call him back, you'll only look desperate.

2007-10-28 19:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by kim_in_craig 7 · 1 0

Do not call him. Just remember my favorite word. "Next". Time to find a new bf who will want to be with you and treats you good.

2007-10-28 19:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Zoey ♥ 7 · 0 0

Yeah that's it. I'm sorry Beautiful but you're going to have to move on... for your own sake. Email me if you need any support.

2007-10-28 19:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by meg (on Violet Hill) 6 · 2 0

time to move on

2007-10-28 19:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by braindamaged 3 · 2 0

What a jerk.
i dont think so.
You deserve to be upset.

2007-10-28 19:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 2 0

its time to move on. dont worry there are MUCH better guys out there who will treat you so much better!!!

2007-10-28 19:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 6 · 3 0

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