"Marry the person who loves u .. not the person u love"
Is that true ? cuz i am in love with a person (we're planning to get married) and he's in love with me too but i feel that i love him more .. should i be worried ?
2007-10-28 12:23:37 · 6 answers · asked by Maria 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have heard of this saying and its ridiculous. Its selfish and unfair for all involved. You only marry for love. And those few of us who are lucky enough to be in love know when the time is right. But don't just get married because you think it would be easier to be with someone you know loves you more. You are just looking for a security blanket. But in the end, not only your partner but you will suffer as well. You will be missing out on sharing lifes adventures with someone YOU really love. And that's the best feeling in the world. As far as you loving him more, I think everyone gets that feeling every now and then. But in your heart, you will know the truth. I'm sure if you two are talking marriage, that he loves you just as much. Congrats and good luck! I hope it all works out :)
2007-10-28 12:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by zsazsazsu121 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it works the same way. you dont love a person 50/50. It should be 110/110 if you could give more well and good.
love means trust, honesty and a lot of self sacrifice.
2007-10-28 12:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if you absolutely despise the person who loves you?
2007-10-28 12:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My grandmother said (she raised me) "Don't marry someone you can live with, marry someone you can't live without." I did that and it worked for me.
2007-10-28 12:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG...................what is wrong with you ppl?
As long as you love him, and he loves you!
And as for your question....no I do not think that is true!
I mean why would someone marry someone that they don't love!
2007-10-28 12:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worrying about something that has not happen?
2007-10-28 12:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋