i have these guyz who i told i did not want to go out with. I said that i would only be their friend. But i don't want to hang out with them because they think that i like them when i hang out with them, when in reality i have told them billions of times NO. I don't want to get close to them, as i mentioned before can't really hang out with them. They are both bad looking, both are very depressing. One is 30 and whenever i go to his place he's always being depressed. I've known these guys for two years are they really my friends....if i can't hang out with them in public, or anywhere. If all they do is say them love me or hit on me and if im really only talking to them because i haven't found a fun friend yet??? I want to be friends but if i do hang out even once its misinterpreted . Ive know them for 2 years
2007-10-28 11:07:49 · 5 answers · asked by fanna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i tried making friends on myspace because i just moved and all i get is guyz and i say no to all of them becoz they're not my type and theyre ok with being friends.... do they really want to be friends if they keep texting me as hey sexy???
2007-10-28 11:17:11 · update #1
You all need to get new friends. These guys are hoping for something that isn't going to happen. Move on.
2007-10-28 11:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Accept the fact that these guys like you for realz.
Either you hang with them and allow things to happen or hang with somebody else. What is your point in hanging out with guys you don't plan on screwing anyways specially if you are 18 and up? This ain't grade school anymore where it's cool to hang out with the opposite sex and not have sex.
Anyway, in reference to these guy friends of yours, what kind of losers are they wanting to hang out with you anyway knowing they ain't gonna get any? I'm getting depressed just thinking about that. Those guys need to move on! Please tell them how pathetic they are. It's been 2 years when the average guy moves on after 2 nights of futility.
2007-10-28 11:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by darmonx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they are interpreting your friendship as being something more then I would stop hanging around with them. Sometimes it's better to be on your own than with people who are negative and that you don't really like. Maybe join some clubs and see if you can widen your circle of friends.
2007-10-28 11:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by Monkey007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the real answer to the problem. DUMP THEM BOTH. They are not friend material. They drag you down and you need space to find new friends. Once you have decided stay firm. You don't have to confront them, just avoid them if you get confronted then tell each of them that you have moved on because they don't want honor your feelings.
AND STAY FIRM.
2007-10-28 11:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by Lyn B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself...leave those guys alone if they keep hitting on you...God will send you a friend...I dont have many friends either and I like it like that.
2007-10-28 11:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by JustChillin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋