Our families have known each other forever and I've known them from the day I was born. They have a son the same age as my sister(older) and a daughter my age. Two and a half years ago I joined the same school as them, and regardless of how long I've known her she allowed people to spread rumors about me (she's popular and could have stopped them). Last year a girl she barely knows stretched something I said completly and told her and she didn't even bother asking for my side she just started yelling at me and stopped talking to me at school and outside of school. Then two months after that I did everythng I could to try to work things out, but she got mad and got the person I hate the most at my school to call me at my house and embarass me infront of my whole family. I then onwards decided that she was the looser not me and that I don't want to be friends with someone who hates me that much. I thought I saw I got to see who she truely was from then on. But latley I've been thinking..
2007-10-28 10:23:01 · 9 answers · asked by zuluagarules 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Our perents are fine with each other (mine, as far as I know don't know any of this, she told me she was telling her parents, they may have called my parents, I don't know), but her brother started to acted really rudely to my sister (who doesn't know any of this).
The thing was that I liked her back then and that girl stretched it and said that I told her that we both (me and my former friend) liked each other.
An example of a rumor would be 2 years ago, two girls came up to me after school, I saw my former friend leaving, the two girls started saying that she liked me and stuff. I could tell it was a lie and that she told them to say that as a joke and I let it go unlike her.
2007-10-28 10:28:26 · update #1
Unfortunately I WILL HAVE TO SEE HER AFTER HIGH SCHOOL because our parents are still close friends. For example we do thanksgiving partys together (more than just our families)
I failed to mention this but, she blocked me on facebook, and I was looking with a friend at the kid who I hate a lot. This kid was referred to the dean of my school for harassment because the teacher of the classes I had with him reported him. She wrote that he should stop harassing me, which is the first time she ever stood up for me for a school related thing (recently).
Not only that but even though my dad makes a lot more than hers, he is wise and doesn't waste a lot on cars. She spread rumors that my parents were poor because my dad (a cadiologist) drives a cheap car.
2007-10-28 10:34:46 · update #2
As much as I want to forget her (trust me I wouldn't care if I didn't know her outside of school) but unfortunately I have to see outside of school
2007-10-28 10:47:04 · update #3
no you shouldn't apologize to her. tell your family as well.. they should know so that they understand
2007-10-28 10:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't how she will suddenly turn on a dime and change for the better. Although you didn't elaborate on all the things she did to you, but when she got someone to call your house and embarrass you in front of your family, that's really out of line. So, exactly what are you going to apologize for? You only apologize to people you've done wrong.
2007-10-28 10:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by NBL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not only not apologize but forget about her. She is the type who uses others and in the long run she will be the one to suffer for that. Just go on with your life and be glad that it is not you going through all she will go through when she is done with school and finds that she isn't all that popular any more, and perhaps even a young single parent.
2007-10-28 10:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she's a snob and a ***** to be frank. Don't have anything to do with her, ignore the rumors (I know it's hard to; I'm gay and people tend to use that to start rumors every month or so.) but you should really try to ignore the rumors & that snob. In 4 or less years you will be out of high school and everyone will go their seperate ways.
2007-10-28 10:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, i'm happy you got here forth and admitted it. i'm happy which you desperate to be extra mature. real people ask those questions and examine your solutions. What you assert surely impacts people, so that is important to no longer manage it like a recreation.
2016-10-14 06:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by kosmoski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you hardly did anything, you've got no reason to be apologizing. Why would you say sorry? The question is, can you forgive your friend
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2007-10-28 10:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you apologize if you haven't done anything? Give her time to let all that immaturity out and grow some sense.
2007-10-28 10:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Leave her alone. You may become friends later but she will hurt you in the long run only worse!
2007-10-28 10:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by chaseslaws12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like u have nothing to apologize for!
Just let it go... her loss!
With like that who needs enemies?
2007-10-28 10:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by charm1936 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋