Mature women PLEASE...personal questions?

Question

Ok ladies, us guys are very insecure about a lot of things.
The main things are
1: height
2: penis size (length and girth)
So, my question is, what would you women consider the "perfcet guy" in those 3 areas ad how important are those things to you?
Also, personally, I am 5"11 ...I am 21 so I wont grow any more...guys "aim" to be over 6 feet, not that we can control any of these things, 6 inches in length and 4.25 in girth...In these areas, would you consider that normal, above or below average?
a lot of people say "put the ruler away" which will make us more sane but we are obsessed about pleasing you - our partners, guy to guy we dont care, it is about you, hence why I am asking you women and ladies out there to answer to answer this question. I am dead serious about this to, so please answer for real, in the past people give silly or moronic comments in topics such as this. So, I am looking to get inside the psyche of a woman here. Any and all answers are appreciated!!!!

Answer 1

An absolutely honest answer is that those things are not important at all as long as the guy is more or less in the normal range. Yeah, I might have a problem dating a guy who was 3'10" tall, but 5'2" and 6'4" are no different for me -- not even a tiny teeny bit. Same with penis size -- if a guy has a one-incher, he might not be able to satisfy me without getting clever with his hands and mouth. And I'd be afraid of being hurt by a penis that was enormous in either length or girth. But I don't give a bleep whether he's packing 4" or 7" -- it just does not matter.

What matters is that he's smart, honest, fun to be with -- stuff like that. Nothing that needs a ruler. NOTHING! I also don't care what color his hair is or if he's a sharp dresser or where his parents came from. All these things are total non-issues. If we love each other, enjoy a lot of the same things, have fun just being together -- what the heck difference does it make about those other things?

Answer 2

You are the perfect height! A lot of men would love to be your height. I look for someone at least my height (5 6) or taller. AS for the other question, you are fine! Probably slightly better than average. I've had all shapes and sizes and believe me, size is not everything! Besides, you never hear anyone talk about the size of women's hoo-has. SHouldn't that matter too? What it comes down to is chemistry and passion and tuning in to your partner. Look...a woman who says she cares about this stuff isn't the woman for you. Please don't fall into the insecurity trap...women are insecure enough without men being insecure too.

Answer 3

my hubby is 5'9. whenever he meets one of my coworkers for the first time they always feel compelled to pull me aside and tell me how gorgeous he is. this happens repeatedly and without me asking their opinion. so, when i say he's hot, believe me.

i think as long as the guy is taller than the girl, it doesn't matter how tall he is. although, there are plenty of celeb examples of guys being shorter than their women. (tom cruise/nicole kidman, tom cruise/katie holmes, russell simmons, kimora lee simmons, billy joel/christie brinkley, rod stewart/all his girlfriends).

as far as length, i think that it is less crucial than girth. why? because women only have nerve endings in the bottom 1/3 of their vagina, so a ton of extra length won't really make a difference. girth is critical to provide enough friction to make it enjoyable. i'm not sure that 4" is standard. i don't know. i've never paid attention, but i've definitely been with a guy who was so slim it was laughable. if you are really worried about girth, don't use so much lube. that will be the interaction more friction-y.

Answer 4

5'11 is a good height. My rule is that he just has to be taller than me. Shorter is a no no! I think 5'7 is the average height for women so your at a good height. As for the other size, sounds good to me. The issue is really not the size, but how it is used!!! Although your measurements are very much normal and good!!! Stop thinking so much into it and focus on pleasing your woman in other ways too

Answer 5

For comparison.....

1) 5'7" (height)
2) 4.5" x 4.75" (length x girth)

Answer 6

Personally, if you're attracted enough to a guy, neither truly matter. My idea of a perfect guy is one who is taller than me who when we have sex cares more about me than himself. As far as size, I'm more worried about too big than too small and Idk what size "perfect" is. My boyfriend doesn't seem to have one that's overwhelmingly big, but it's plenty for me :-)