im 17 as is my best friend. i really think he is gay...like read my other questions which will give more detail. but anyway, he gives me so many signs but idk how to ask him, or bring it up. i mean what are the odds that two kids who have been best friends since 1st grade, now juniors, are both gay??? seriously, is it a coincidence, or justdestiny? or am i just wrong about my assumptions? but if i want to bring it up, should i ask if he wants to j__k off together through aim, or what? i need some help...thanks!
2007-10-28 09:28:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
also, i have not outright told him i am gay but he might suppose that i am...
2007-10-28 09:35:24 · update #1
Do you fancy yourself as relationship material with your friend or are you just curious for the hell of it? What signs does he give you? Does he always make references to getting it on with you or other guys? Does he scrutinise you a bit more than anyone else?
Yeah, try jerking off together. Get drunk, rent a few pornos but accidently get a gay one. "Oh my, how did this get here?"
2007-10-28 18:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just 'cos you've both been friends since first grade doesn't mean you can't both be gay! Turns out one of my friends from preschool is bi so it's not unheard of! The quickest way to find out is by asking! Does he know that you're gay?
2007-10-28 09:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think of those are own quirks you hit upon in some human beings, who take place to be lady, stressful. you won't be in a place to "unlike" all women. You declare to not be gay, so as which capability you nevertheless discover women alluring definite? possibly you basically might desire to fulfill greater elegant women extremely of the impolite ones you have for sure encountered.
2016-09-28 00:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you openly gay? If yes, and he's not... wait for him to make the first move, if any.
The chances? Considering that about five percent of the population is gay... that's about a 1 in 400 chance.
2007-10-28 09:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell him that you are gay first and see if he makes a move if he doesn't then just leave it alone. don't be nervous about asking him he's your best friend he'll be fine with it and if he is also gay then good luck with your relationship
2007-10-28 09:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by Wicked 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is that good of a friend of urs then why are u afraid of asking? Does he know ur gay? If not tell him and see how he reacts. If he flips out if u ask him then he wasnt a true friend ne ways. Oh and dont ask him if he wants you LOL ask him if hes gay duh.... :) Hope I helped
2007-10-28 09:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by iloveroybee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just sit in a Hot Tub with him and you will find out that's how it happened for me, but you both have to be naked.
2007-10-28 09:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by PARKERD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask him. if you been friends that long its not gonna be wierd between you even if he says no im not gay.
bet he is though.
2007-10-28 09:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by Wizard Alex 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go for it. Grab his whanger so he has a good excuse to beat you up for sexually harassing him.
2007-10-28 10:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Are you curious about gay sex?"...simple, quick, and listen to his answer. If he says "yes" you're in. If he says no, then you know where you stand then too.
2007-10-28 09:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by ms_beehayven 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋