2007-10-28 09:18:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's a personal preference. Your going to get a different answer from anyone you ask.
2007-10-28 09:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Leo ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a bad thing if you were taught otherwise. It's all in what you believe in. If you feel that it is wrong, then find someone who will respect you and your desires. The only person it should matter to, is you. :o) Don't let others tell you if it's wrong or not b/c it's all an opinion. Do what you feel is right in your heart....it won't lead you astray.
2007-10-28 09:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by Blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you think of snoozing around with boys and kissing horses makes you undesirable and makes you enjoyed, then you certainly've a thoroughly warped thought of sexual intimacy and love. i think of you should sit down alongside with your father and ask him for the Birds and the Bees communicate, and consistent with threat ask approximately beginning administration in case you're severe approximately having intercourse. A father could lots particularly his daughter ask for beginning administration than come homestead and say she's having somewhat one at sixteen. additionally, that's extremely immature to decide to "get lower back at him" for entering into an arguement or "overprotecting". that's what dads do with daughters, they love them and safeguard them. And "getting lower back at him" via having intercourse is the WORST possible element you may desire to ever arise with. Are you attempting to debris your guy or woman existence up? no longer something's incorrect with you, you're only puzzled and rather desire some parental instruction on all of this, something that folk on Yahoo solutions can not furnish.
2016-12-30 08:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your believes and your values the self repect you have for yourself and your future mate. Not very many virgins out there lately, now days its hard to stay a pure. I didn't wait, i mean what do you think the chances are for your future husband waiting that long also. It's hard! Personally I don't think it is wrong.
2007-10-28 09:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by mommie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends who you ask.
In the Catholic religion, which is what I am; you're not supposed to lose your virginity until you are married.
However, although I'm catholic I had sex before I was married and I think that's normal.
I think you should test the waters, or "try it before you buy it'.
For me, having sex before marriage taught me a lot about sex which I could later enjoy with my fiance.. with experience.
2007-10-28 09:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead ask--is it a good thing to remain a virgin until your marriage? And that's a question for all the guys. It's been said that everytime you have sex with a person, you have sex with all their past partners. I waited, as a virgin until my wedding night to have sex with my wife, and I'm glad I did.It showed her in a very unique way that she was special,that we shared something intimate and personal and unique to us; and that I wasn't carrying all this baggage from the past with me.
2007-10-28 09:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I won't say it's a bad thing, but if you aren't ready for intimacy then DON'T. Intimacy is best enjoyed if you truly love the other person and yes, believe it or not it is best enjoyed as a virgin on your wedding night.
2007-10-28 09:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say yes. if you have sex now then you will only cause problems once you get married. look on yahoo answers and you will find many people asking if its ok to be upset with their partner having sex before they got married. its all over the place. having sex now only gets instant gratification. but it ruins the life long journey between you and your partner forever. just wait, its not that big a deal to wait, really it isnt.
2007-10-28 09:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by slow_hand_78 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not so bad but an experienced!
It is better to enjoy our sex as we want it while we are young because as we grow old our life will not be the same again.
2007-10-28 23:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
deffinatly not. im a virgin but i dont plan on waiting long b4 i lose it not being a slut at all but if u truly love someone it shouldnt matter if ur married or not thats just a binding contract ...and im not saying marrige is bad.
2007-10-28 09:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by Katherine S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋