Did I make a mistake. Everyone says I did the right thing. I got him to go away. Why am I soo sad hes gone?
got him to go away....So why am I sooo sad. I'm not eating,sleeping..I cant function at all?
I met this guy online in June.We have been dating eachother ever since.Lately he has?
began telling me that he wants me to move to his city. We live only 30 min away from each other.I dont have my own apartment because I have to help my grandmother,she wants me here.He has been looking for apartments in his city for me.The rent is really high where he lives.Why does he want me to just pick up and move there to be with him.The only help that he has offered is to rent a car and help move my belongings from here to there.He said that I am always coming to his place and he doesnt want to come to mine because it is too far.Could he be abusive?
Is this a warning?
Should I be carefull?
Does this mean that he wants to get married?Should I be carefull?
I'm torn. I have been dating this man for about two months now.Lately he has been telling me that he wants me to go to Arizona in November to meet his family,friends,everyone.H... and I live here in California and he wants to move to New York with him next year.He asked me last weekend if I can have children.I'm a little hesitant because he has a really BADDD temper.He got mad at me and punched the wall.We went on an outing to the park. I told him that I needed to go to the bathroom.When I got back from the bathroom he showed me his camera.He had followed me and took pictures of me as I went to the bathroom aal the way until I went inside.I remember stopping to talk to a lady about her dog,he took pictures of that too.Am I jumping to conclusions or should I be careful
2007-10-28 09:08:09 · 4 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You are going through the hardest part of a breakup when you care for someone. It will go away, just stay away from him, he is no good for you. Love involves sacrifice, but not that kind of pain. If he cares about you, he would not ask so much of you so soon. He has a temper problem, this is not good. You do not want to have children with a man that has a bad temper, and you do not want to marry someone that is not suited for you either. Please take everyones advice and stay away from this guy, we would not say this if we did not know better. I understand that this is difficult for you, but you will get through this. If he is the type that I think he is if you move in with him to some strange city, he will become even more controlling once he thinks he has the upper hand.PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM HIM!!!!
2007-10-28 13:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by PEACE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by breaking up with him. He sounds controlling and that is why he wants you to move near him. He wants to control every aspect of your life. If you moved in with him then he would become physically abusive to you and probably not let you go anywhere without him knowing where you are. You would be miserable and unable to get away from him. You may be miserable now but it will go away. DO NOT GO BACK TO HIM FOR ANY REASON. He may try to get in touch with you and be all nice and tell you he will never do it again. DON'T BELIEVE HIM. It just a lie to get you back and control you. You deserve someone who treats you right and you get along with like a best friend. You were very smart to get away from him. Good Luck......
2007-10-28 16:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by CDRN 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think you are no where near ready to have a relationship on a long term basis. You are seeing all those red flags, and you know they indicate bad problems, but still you come in here and ask. You need to back off relationships until you trust your own instincts a whole lot better than you do right now.
2007-10-28 16:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might get better answers in the singles & dating section, instead of women's health :-]
2007-10-28 16:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by *princess* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋