okay ive been talking (having short person-to personconversations) and short computer-conversations with this guy in one of my classes. He seems realy nice. Problem is hes realy popular, like its not like im un-popular but hes the guy everyone says hi to in the hallways!
so yeah he seems nice, we have huged twice so far, so i would like to start a friendship with him, but he already has tons of friends. Do u think he would have room for another, more average friend like me? If yes, i find that hard to believe...please explain this to me.
if u think he is still interested in making even more frtiends, how can i let him know i would want to hang out some time? we dont realy see eachother much because we only have 1 class together.
2007-10-28 09:06:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Even the coolest, most popular guys always have room for one more friend. Always. And if he really is a cool guy, then he's friends with all kinds of different people, especially average people like you (and me haha). One of the best ways to ask him to hang out, or see if he wants to, is to find out some interest of his (say he likes football) and then ask him to go with you to some event relating to that interest (like a football game). If it's something you know absolutely nothing about, ask him if he'd explain it to you. Try talking to him more often than you do now without going way out of your way, and just be yourself. The only way to find out if he'd be interested in hanging out with you is to ask him. Easier said than done, but it would be worth it to make another friend, right? Go for it, and good luck! Hope everything works out for you.
2007-10-28 09:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by Coastie Wife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not a teenager, and I've got plenty of points, but if you'd like an opinion from the voice of experience, here goes: Sounds to me like you're already friends with this guy. You've had conversations, you've hugged twice, and the friendship has already been started. So he's a popular guy, and most popular guys got that way from being friendly to everyone. I think what you might be really asking, is "do I have a chance to be his girlfriend?" The answer is you've got just as much chance as anyone else. Why not suggest to him, a time when you could possibly hang out together. I'll bet he will take you up on it, or perhaps even suggest it himself. One word of caution, though -- don't get too possessive, and be ready to put up with the competition. You may not be his one and only, but you may manage a few dates with him if you play your cards right. But if it's strictly friendship you want, then it's already there, if what you're saying is true. Good luck!
2007-10-28 16:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he has room for another friend.
If he's a cool guy, as you make him sound, he's probably a friendly person and loves making new ones. Just because he has a lot of friends doesn't mean that he doesn't want anymore; there's no limit to how many friends a person can have.
Also, if you want to hang out with him, on the computer tell him that you're interested in hanging out one day and see what he says.
Good Luck.
2007-10-28 16:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not average! Have a little self-confidence and show him that you're the coolest person in school! High school stereotypes suck, but everybody is different, and who knows? maybe he'll love the person you are.
Why don't you ask him to study with you for a big test in that class? That way you can get his number to set up the studying and you guys can bond a little, away from everyone at school. Show him how cool you are!
2007-10-28 16:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by InlovewithTalon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you write him a very nice personal letter explaining your feelings and see what happens. You might be surprised. You never know until you try. Oh, and stop putting yourself down. What's with the "average" stuff. You are as good as or better than the others around you.
WALK WITH CONFIDENCE AT ALL TIMES!
2007-10-28 16:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by Yner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and say Hey Wanna hang out sometime? if he says no he need's some time or he was nervous. If yes then say how about the mall
2007-10-28 16:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by sucideisablast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust yourself but don't be stalker..Popular people like having more friends.They love to be caring of them.But if u want to be special, u must explore him and be a lil bit mysterious ;-)
You're in a good way.Continue ;-)
2007-10-28 16:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by Irmak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you to talked on the computer and ugged than yeah he considers you a friend
2007-10-28 16:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by Too CooL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see y he wouldnt have room for another friend...just try to become closer to him and i dont think that u can ever have too many friends...hope it works out good luck!
2007-10-28 16:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by Soccerluvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he want's to be freinds and have u as a bed buddy
2007-10-28 16:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by mim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋