Indian girl , travels on a business trip to UK. In the office-caffeteria are a lot many number of people say 25. As the girl is walking out of the office-caffeteria post lunch, she passes by a group of 7-8 english men. One of them says aloud ''shes got Boobs !!! '' .................... '' BOOBS'' ..... loud enough for the girl to hear !!
She walks ahead, and when she looks back suddenly , one of the english boys is walking behind her doubled up with his lunch plate in his hands ....
The girl is chubby but not obease. What does this behaviour mean ? A complement ? A joke ?
The girl does not report it because she is there only for 7 days, and she knows none of thoes boys. And would never ever meet them again.
(The office is of prime repute international level , where only cream of students and experienced candidates are given an entry )
Tring to understand this behaviour of men in a group. When do they behave this way.
2007-10-28 08:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
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2007-10-28 09:12:21 · update #1
Immaturity is not only the vice of the unintellectual. Just because you are among the "cream of the crop" doesn't mean that there is going to be a mess of perfect character, spotless personalities, and morally superior individuals. When there is a group of young men, whether it be nerds, geeks, or dweebs, it is just like a pack of wolves. They get strength from their pack and do things that they would never do alone. If you were aware of this then you would know that your focus shouldn't be on any vocal individual, but, the one that is holding back with a disgusted expression. He will want to be with the pack but, not involved in their antics. Next time watch and listen to the quiet ones!
2007-10-28 09:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by delux_version 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means the men noticed her above average sized boobs, they dont even know what she looks like cuz they have already focused on what they like, it doesnt mean n e thing bad, just some ppl (both men amd women alike) are like that, lol... not good or bad but a little rude and blunt... no need 2 report it though, if ur gorgious then get use to it, humans have instincts and theirs were not thst of a mature nature... u cant change ppl, only time can... so in all seriousness, ive been 2 ur country and uk b4, some men in groups dont know how 2 b civil, if u just want 2 understand it, they think u have an attractive body and are pretty, they dont mean to make u sad, or upset, in fact they were more then likely hoping u would respond 2 them in a posative way believe it or not...
and not saying u should but i usually just walk away with my head high ignoring them, or say "u wish"... but most effective that i have tried b4 was stopping and going "WHERE" woth a look that says 'u immature a**holes' and rolling my eyes and walking away.....
then again I am from NYC so we do weird things like that, lol
2007-10-28 16:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by midnite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are just a different race, honey. They are rude and make vulgar noises when girls are around, but when boys are in a group and girls are around it magnifies 20X.
It seems to me that they were complimenting your bustline, though in a rude way, so that they could laugh about it together. You ran into a group of guys trying to find something to make a joke about. So they looked at you, trying to find an outstanding body part, and commented loudly and rudely.
I happen to know that a lot of men prefer a nicely rounded figure. They're soft, happy, and make wonderful mothers. Nobody skinny can give a hug worth a hoot!
In conclusion, I think you should: ignore the boys, they are stupid; remember their first impression of you (someone noticing my sexy shape is definitely a compliment to remember); and, as you noted, you'll never see them again. Yeah!!
TX Mom
2007-10-28 16:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Part of it is those guy's being immature and the other part is mob mentality
2007-10-28 16:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by lmndrp44 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
adolescence british humour
2007-10-28 16:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a thinker.
2007-10-28 16:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by sammyankee 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
they yelled boobs, they were being pigs and metioning her chest!!
2007-10-28 16:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly Lynn <3 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
no harm intended!! they like what they saw.
2007-10-28 16:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋