My friends all all out getting high and drunk what should i do?
They all go out and smoke weed and get pissed and we are all only 14-15!
They always ask me if i want to go, but i say no, if i tell them why hey say don't be gay.
My more closer friends go, and say they do not like the smoking, but they get drunk, but i don't really want to be arround it. Especially since they all tried it while they where drunk, which i do not want to happen to me.
I will still go out with the ones that i am atuarly friends with, but only if there will be no weed there (which only happens in public places).
The fact that they all do this makes me not want to even hang arround with some of them at all,
Am i doing the right thing?
PLEASE CAN YOU leave your age with your answer so that i know if it is someone who had the same problem or an adul giving advice or whatever.
Thankyou!
2007-10-28 07:39:41 · 8 answers · asked by Walk on Water 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would just like to say that i do not think i am stupid but at times i think.....
who is having more fun: them
are they suffering: no
i normally think to my self in the long run they wll be sorry, but then i look at all the peopl who do it and are fine.
I just need to make sure that i am doing the right thing.
2007-10-28 07:53:45 · update #1
I also think, will one drag really do anything?
Do you agree that i shouldn't, as i is a bad habbit?
2007-10-28 07:55:58 · update #2
Keep being the smart kid and stay away from that stuff...remember, even we adults were your age once.
All those kids are doing is damaging their bodies young and increasing their chances of having drug and alcohol problems at an early age (in other words, the chances of them really screwing up their lives has skyrocketed).
Find some new friends...ones who don't think chemicals are the way to have fun. Take care of you!
2007-10-28 07:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a family member who would ask me if I'd like to try. They always tried persuading me, but I told them no, I will not. Trust me, there are a lot of people who do drugs in my grade (unfortunately) but I stick to my beliefs and say no. I also give out the idea that doing that kind of thing is stupid. Stick to what you think and try to make new friends. Pretty soon your other friends will stop asking you, besides, you don't think you're stupid do you? I don't. Trust me. they end up in a bad place if they keep it up. I'm 13, almost 14
2007-10-28 07:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by toast&jam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry, im 15 but i have a ot of friends who do the same thing. i think that stuff is disgusting and if anything u should hang out with people who dont do weed and get drunk. or u can just tell ur friends to stop.
2007-10-28 07:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by bigG 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 17, and a girl, but ive been in your position. except i did smoke and drink. so ANYWAYS, my advice is this: those guys most likely won't change all through high school. if you dont want to drink or smoke, thats great. youll be smarter for sure than those guys and girls go for that. just be strong. hang out with them even if they are smoking and drinking tho, theyll respect you. to be honest, the day will come when you give in...whether its next week or your senior year, you prolly will. but its cool that you dont, all the guys i hung out with when i was your age turned out to be assholes so either move on to better friends or stick with it but be cool about it. just dont be annoying or an ***
2007-10-28 07:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by abaybay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 11...
Ok let me congratulate you for being strong about your opinion. You should really get some new friends. Hang out with people who are nice like you. Your friends will eventually get caught, or next year when some of them start driving, maybe even get killed. I wish the best for you.
2007-10-28 08:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by **Silvia** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are soooo doing the right thing. Nothing like that happens around my friends, but it happens with people that I at least know. I'm sooo sorry you have to go threw this....just remember, you're doing the right thing.
14 years old
2007-10-28 07:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 18 yrs old and those are not ur real friends at all so stop tlking to them and found ppl just like u. smoking weed and drinking is bad for u and ur body u can also get sick one day. u kno lung cancer. do u want lung cancer? so just stop tlking to them and tell them its bad. u dont have to drink and smoke to have fun.
2007-10-28 08:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by answer my ? n keep it going lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to get new friends. Friends that share your values and interests.
2007-10-28 07:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by Dan H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋