Met a girl months ago & kept in contact even though she moved to another country
She had invited me on a trip but I couldn't go due to work
I later visited her & we became a bit closer but no chat about
our feelings
She contacted me &I invited her to visit me, she said she would, but that it's hard to find me at home (as I often head off travelling)
I invited her again & she said she would come once she gets
free time..she has a heavy study load
Next time I asked her if she could get some time off & she asked me for how long I will be around.
I told her I'd be around for a few mths & she said she has a vac'n coming up though she's thinking of visiting her parents but she then said 'we'll see'.
One more thing, she told me one time a few mths ago by chat that she was falling for me.
2007-10-28 04:42:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It sounds to me that she's not completely sure about her feelings for you.
Of course there's no way of knowing for real but she doesn't strike me as confused and if she's really willing to travel to you it would be a good sign.
Good luck with it.
2007-10-28 04:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got there long-distance-love! Out of the country, talk to her once in a while... Why don't you try and meet another girl who's not so far away from you? You then could progress in having a real relationship? The way it goes, you're kind of waisting your time for a girl who might turn you down in the end. Take of yourself!
2007-10-28 11:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by kayneriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a bit complicated to continue i think. Maybe keeping it as mates would be better... Long distance relationships are such hard work, you have to be sure you both feel something strong for it to work and for things not to be annoying, it sounds like you should ask her what she wants the position to be with you and discuss the fact that you live in very different places and have very different lives... good luck!
2007-10-28 12:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jessbess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a matter of random luck/ unfortunate turns - but if u do happen to meet her u suld think of sum thing extra like a bouquet of flowers or sumtin to really get her attention - or she might NOT fall for u and also keeping girls waiting isnt smart :( so u should try to get a plan ready ahead of time to ensure u guyz meet up
2007-10-28 11:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the timing just isn't working.
Her life is busy and your life is busy.
Stay in touch and check back in 6 months (if your available) or a year.
2007-10-28 11:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is backpedaling. You've made the offer several times. If she doesn't respond on her own she's not ready or you're not the one for her. Good luck.
2007-10-28 11:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like shes in to you but that she might be scared. maybe you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel imean is you falling in love with her?
2007-10-28 11:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by kimmmy2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋