2007-10-28 03:59:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
OR ARE YOU
2007-10-28 04:00:44 · update #1
real love takes time....it takes a lot of work....if u want to have a good relationship....that minute stuff is lust
2007-10-28 10:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
True love takes time, you can be very attracted to someone, and feel lust, but that is not love, to really truly love someone you have to know them deeply, to know there thoughts and feelings, to know what kind of soul they have, are they a truly good human being, do they feel for other people or are they selfish, all this takes time. That is why so many marriage's go bad, when you get married you find out the true person that you married, and sometimes its not pretty, and I am not talking about looks. I used to be very old fashioned and thought people should not live together before marriage, but I no longer feel that way, I think everyone should know what they are getting into, there are some really mean, hateful people out there, and you don't know it until you live together, it would save a lot of people from divorce
2007-10-28 04:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Judy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there's nothing wrong with a quickie here and there! It all depends on time and circumstances! LOL
Generally though, when you have the time and should be taking it and dont, major faux pas.
But geez I would recommend taking off that makeup before getting into bed!! :~)
And if you're talking about REAL love honey, puppy love happens in an instant. Once you've been burned a few times you'll start to know what you really need.
2007-10-28 04:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Takes time
2007-10-28 04:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Bug Fuggy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, love takes time to grow. I am marrying my best friend in 5 weeks and I know it will last because we took the time for love to grow. (and it continues to grow every day)
When you first meet someone, those feelings that you feel when you are with them, (the butterflies and excitement) usually fade after a while...in my opinion that is not love.
Love comes from finding comfort, respect, compassion, trust, acceptance for who you both are, and really knowing one another... love will grow stronger and stronger over time.
There are ups and downs in every relationship, but you love that special someone through everything,...no matter how difficult the journey- knowing that you are in it together and that you are there for each other, will help your love become stronger!
2007-10-28 04:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Caring can happen quickly but I believe that love takes time!!
2007-10-28 04:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by Ginny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time, love takes time.
2007-10-28 04:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal opinion is that it takes time. Nothing just happens, you have to work at it, but then there are the believers in Romeo and Juliet. They believe you can fall in love at first site.
I'm just skeptical
2007-10-28 04:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by dark_angel_360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can fall in lust in seconds but to build on that and turn it into love, it usually takes a little longer.
2007-10-28 08:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time
2007-10-28 04:05:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋