i never have fun and i dont like the type of girls that go to nightclubs. sometimes i go because of my friends. i am 18 years old, so i was wondering should i go just because my friends want to go?
2007-10-28 01:29:39 · 31 answers · asked by hammy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No! You should go when and if YOU want to go. If there's something else you enjoy doing, invite them to go along, too. You may be surprised that they just might enjoy it too! And, if not, at least you could go and actually enjoy yourself instead of going with them and having a horrible time. Be your own person and do your own thing. If you're worried about having no friends or losing the ones you have, don't......there will be some who will go and you'll also make new friends. Enjoy yourself!
2007-10-28 01:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by J. S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
18 is kind of a sh*tty age for clubbing. Too young to drink & too old to not care about your self image.
All my friends used to go to clubs also. I'd just sit at the bar and drink a beer. Was pretty boring. You'd be amazed how many of your friends may feel the same way but are too wrapped up in self image to say so.
Try suggesting going to a local bar or restaurant that has a live blues / jazz band. I think you'll like it. People will be more into being themselves then some fake urban teenage tough guy / girl front.
2007-10-28 01:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! you know yourself better than them!
You said you never have fun and you don't like the type of girls that go to nightclubs. So why bother of going there? Go if you really have the plan of becoming one of them, do you?
2007-10-28 01:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by nothin! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Never ever do something because someone else wants you to. Never do something because you are being forced to do so. Never do somethhing because of fear of reprisal.
Whatever you do in life. Do so because you want to. Because you are curious. Because you are excited about it.
When you do go to the nightclub let it be because you are curious about what goes on in there, and not because your friends.
You will only be fooling yourself, then you just wont feel comfortable and relax. Hence, you just wont be enjoying yourself as you should.
So the next time, think. Do you really want to solve a mystery, or be a follower.
It is always good to be a leader than a follower. It is always good to follow your heart and not hormones or peer pressure.
2007-10-28 01:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by asha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you dont like nightclubs. So this is up to you, either have fun somewhere else without your friends/with new friends Or you can go and not have fun with your friends
2007-10-28 01:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by CupCake 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could find something else to do with your friends other than go to nightclubs and if you dont want to go then you dont have to.
2007-10-28 01:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by Calum of Calderdale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey.. don't go.. I never enjoyed them either.. even though I played guitar in many.. Find girls in museums', do volunteer work.. You sound like you enjoy more sensitive women. Not to say women in nightclubs are bad, they are not..but you might find someone more compatible in another setting.
2007-10-28 02:16:06 · answer #7 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not because your friends are doing it means that you should do it too...so if you dont find the club scene right for you, then stop wasting your time going there...do what you really want and what makes you happy...its possible to find the right girl at the places you want to hang out in...it also means that you and this girl have already something in common....
2007-10-28 01:39:44 · answer #8 · answered by geisha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u shouldn't go if u don't want to if u were smart enough u would ask a girl on a date just the 2 of u, a girl u really like.
so u can stay away from the night clubs, and find love.
2007-10-28 01:35:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't.
They are just going to have to respect that nightclubs aren't for you (if they truly are your friends they'll understand and accept it).
2007-10-28 01:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by bestonnet_00 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋