our house rules is that we should not lock our rooms at nights or when we have friends in our room..girls not allowed inside our rooms. one night after school work i watched some porn in my PC with headphone so that nobody could heard the sounds. i did not notice that my dad came in and i found him at my back watching porn and my hand inside my shorts holding my penis..i freak out but my dad knows how to pacify my situation. it was my fisrt serious discussion with my dad about sex, masturbation, porns and lot of things but i was so ashamed that i could not face him at breakfast the following morning, he just pat me in my back and wink it's means okey i guess. it was a good dad and son encounter that night and i'm thankful for having a dad like him. from dad to his 16 yrs old son it means so much to me and i treasure of my dad love to his children. have you experience thesame that somebody caught you doing nasty and crazy things..just for your thoughts...
2007-10-26 19:57:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
How did u get ur hand in ur penis? ouch
When u get caught masturbating, u have to do 2 things quick.
1st, look suprised... and dont worry, u will be.
2nd, say "quick, call for help, my hand and my penis are fighting!"
Dont sweat it man, it happens to every guy sometime or another.
2007-10-26 20:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by BDI Thug 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
That has never happened to me, fortunately, but I am really glad that your dad handled the situation that well. A lot of parents wouldn't be that understanding, but your dad did the right thing to have a serious, comprehensive discussion and reassure you that all of that is ok and natural. I know that it can be really awkward to get "the talk"... it's that way for most everyone who goes through it. But still, it is good that things have worked out well for you.
2007-10-27 03:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by Rat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let us not forget that our dads were also 'teens ' at one time!. They have their own physical and mental developments , whatever the generation.They know what to expect out of boys and girls of that age.
many parents donot know how to handle the situation but some fathers do.
The point to note is that this episode or encounter should not be thought of as a toatla accepatnce and one should not start to do whatever he feels like.This is not reckless freedom . This is a freedom to learn and know from experience.
2007-10-27 03:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by YD 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well personally once i heard the door opening so I turned off the monitor, but the volume that i ha on low i didnt have a chance to turn off, but same thing...my mom pretended like she didnt notice.
my friend on the other hand has a GREAT embarrassing story. He had a porn in the VHS player. He had company over...family, friends, it was a big thing and his dog pushed in the porno and everyone saw the porno come on the television, in front off all his family and friends...i would've died of embarassement.
2007-10-27 07:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by DPR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey doesn't everyone do the same at some point my brother got caught watching a porn video with his mates by the neighbour because they forgot to shut the curtain. it great how your dad handled it. Don't worry about it, its just 1 of those things in life
2007-10-27 03:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it!! every guy gets caught masterbating at some point in his life. consider yourself lucky it was not your mother or girlfriend that walked in. talk about dying from embarrassment.
I usually had a stash of 3-4 porn or skin magazines when i was your age. i had really elaborate hiding spots in heating vents or lose pannelling to hide the dvds and vhs tapes. james bond level hiding spots but where did i get caught 90% of the time?? by forgetting and leaving the tape in the VCR for my mom to find
your dad will be cool with it because at some point he was in the same situtation you are in someone caught him. he understands the level of embarrassment you are going through first hand (pun intended)
2007-10-27 03:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by Johnny M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your dad when he was young was looking at his dads Playboy magazines and jacking off. Like father like son. Boys find things on the web and yes they will jack off.
2007-10-27 04:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens, but it's good how someone is caring for you and helping you. Let that be an experience that makes you never do stuff like that again.
2007-10-27 03:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by curious george 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry every body masturbates.he is probably proud to know you like gals and are not gay.(no offense to gay people)
try not be embarressed you are not the only teen ager to be caught out.
2007-10-27 03:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by ursula k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It okay thats life
you just reminded your DAD when he was young,
nice to know you have pride.
Stay as you are. Proud of you
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2007-10-27 03:09:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋