2007-10-26 17:53:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
see a psychiatrist
2007-10-26 17:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are depressed, a doctor can help with therapy and/or a script, but you really don't elaborate on what you mean about being sick of everything and everyone.
If it's a matter of being stuck in a dead end job, or a town that seems to hold no future of interest for you, or relationships that aren't ever going to get better, or living a lie, or not living up to your potential-
then what would help is taking one goal at a time that will lead you in a direction that you want to go in.
You need something that interests you and fills you with purpose and meaning in life. What would you like to do that would be possible, even if it took a lot of work and some years of study or practice to get that skill or profession?
Once you identify this goal, you might then identify what you need to do to make it a reality. If you are in with the wrong crowd, whether follower or ringleader, you may need to move to unfamiliar surroundings to make a new start. Then you will need to build HEALTHY support, as much as possible from as many sources as possible. Best wishes to you- life CAN be better.
2007-10-27 01:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'm at work, then I think ugly thoughts about myself and how much I wish I were dead and sometimes plot my suicide.
If I'm with other people, then I just think ugly thoughts about myself, and wish I were dead and plot my suicide.
But when I'm not working and am home (I live alone with my pets) , I just go to bed and sleep it off. I might cry myself to sleep first... and when I wake up, I talk to God about it.
That usually does the trick.
**EDIT**
Oh, and you know what else helps? And I know that God gave me this idea, because I got it when I was talking to Him.
So I'm there and I'm sick of everyone and everything, including myself, right?
I get my journal out and make a list... or, I make the list in my head... But I list at least ten things that are RIGHT with life. There is an unending downward spiral of things that are awful in life... and those are easy to find. I try to make a list of all that is good and right in life, and use those as footholds on life.
Example:
1. My dog. She loves me no matter how sloppy I am, no matter how much I fail or get behind in paying my bills.
2. My niece. Every year she gets more beautiful and more intelligent.
3. the smell of rain
4. the look of the sky when a big, big storm is brewing
5. baby animals... they're just so darned adorable... I'll even go to a petstore just to hug and let puppies kiss me.
6. the taste of _______ (fill in the blank)--- if you're really depressed, go and buy some of that and have some. My blank is filled with Butterfinger Pie from Burger King.
7.the tight bond of friendship I have with my sister... even when she's in a bad mood.
8.dreaming big about tomorrow's possibilities
9. family who just don't see the "loser" I see in myself.
10. the way the air feels when the season changes (a long wait, here in south Texas) from sweltering hot summer to cool, breezey fall... from hot, sunny skies, to cool, cloudy skies.
2007-10-27 01:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by scruffycat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a worthwhile charity and donate some of your time to helping people who really need an appreciate your help. It might sound like a stupid idea to you right now, but after you've actually felt the pleasure of doing something like this, you might be surprised at how your outlook on life might change.
2007-10-27 01:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Embrace Absurdism; it is a poetic way to deal with hopelessness. Look up Soren Kierkegaard and Albert Camus for details of the "absurd."
2007-10-28 18:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by stream of signifiers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey CaM , yea , i was feeling that way last week after a visit from my grandkids and they were "spouting off' and their mother just sat there. Imagine the brats being that disrespectful of their "elders" and my daughter doing NADA! They even said they didn't want to come back to my house.Then on wed. they called and apologized. Of course I went down to the local "Hangout" and vented to my friends. At least one of them was sympathetic to my problem. And now things are better. Sometimes just venting to a friend helps
2007-10-27 01:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try surrounding yourself with positive influences and realize your limitations right now and don't put more on your plate than you can handle. We all have these feelings, and how we deal with them is what prepares us for future ups and downs. Change what you can, and accept what you cannot change. Good Luck and better times are just around the corner...trust me! D'n'D
2007-10-27 01:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by DESPERATELY SEEKING SANITY!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may be in need of some professional counseling. May be you would benefit from calling first call for help or other counseling. But get some help!
2007-10-27 01:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't happen, but what is called for is to distract your mind. Go to any of the reliable websites I'll recommend you. Try news.scotsman.com, latimes.com, physorg.com, nationalgeographic.com. Go to NtlGeo first, they have photos, vids, etc., great site. Now, cheer up!
2007-10-27 01:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by Cam1051Sec 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try and figure out why you're feeling this way; make lists of things/people that/who irritate you. read a book, go on a vacation, anything.
2007-10-27 00:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be alone for a day or 2
2007-10-28 19:42:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋