2007-10-26 17:51:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Honey I understand..we can all relate! It is soo good that you are overcoming your fear and going :)
Honestly they will not even care. They have seen all kinds of things and seeing a gynaecologist at 26 probably won't even raise an eyebrow. Besides they are professionals.
BTW if you are still nervous or scared don't worry.
When you go in, just tell the doctor that this is your first exam and she will understand. If your doctor is male there will Always be a female nurse there too. If there is a female or physician's assistant at your doctor's practice than you may want to ask if she can give the exam or they may offer.
The pelvic exam is done and over with very quickly like just a few min. For what it's worth the first is the scariest and most awkward. After that than they are just a damn nusience.
It may feel a little wierd but it will not be painful. Being a virgin doesn't really matter but having experience using tampons is helpful because you know how to relax your vaginal and tummy muscles. Believe me it will be ok :)
You can take your mom or a close friend with you too if you want. You won't be the first at all. She won't have to see anything but she can be with you and talk to you and even hold your hand if you are scared. Believe me it is totally ok and not at all unusual to do this if you want!
Best wishes and I hope this helps. Please feel free to email me if you like :)
2007-10-26 18:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ ~Sigy the Arctic Kitty~♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice...definitely go!! I have had 3 irregular paps and there is no telling where i would be right now if i didn't take care of myself. So if you are scared to go..ask for a premed..they would much rather give you that than have the possibility of you being undiagnosed with any problems. And i found seeing a female gyno is a little less stressful than a male...you will be glad you got checked...its a huge relief!!
2007-10-27 03:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by KAREN S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They will not have any way of knowing you haven't. Just tell them you had a pap a few years back, and it was normal. The most you need to know is the date of your last period. Sometimes doctors do comment on what they think is not responsible, but they have no room to judge you. If you haven't had one, don't be scared to say it with confidence straight in their eye so they know you're not the one they can act all superior with.
2007-10-26 18:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-02 21:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never too late to start going. They will be pleased that you made the effort to overcome your fears and get checked. Be honest with your Dr. and they will guide you through the exam with much care.
2007-10-26 17:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by claranet23 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just tell them you've never had insurance.
what the heck do you care what they think of you anyway? you are paying them to look at your vagina!!!
what matters is your opinion of them!
2007-10-26 17:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Alexis N 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it doesn't matter what they think, what matters is that you get the healthcare you need. they will likely just be glad to get your money, they earn their living doing that you know.
2007-10-26 17:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋