Well, this is my case. I´m colombian and I have had many experiences about it, but in particular two serious and the most important relationships for me , one with a swedish woman and another with a norwegian. I was married with the first for 3 years. a very deep love and passion but it becomed impossible to be agree about the place to live. I wanted to live in my country and in her country as a second choice, and she was so stubborn with her idea of living in Spain. She never wanted to understand how different is to be an inmigrant from the south living in Europe than an european living in southamerica where always strangers have been welcomed. We had all the good things living in my country: good jobs for both, my own flat and car and my love. But she wanted that I left my good life here to go in an adventurous crazy plan migrating to an increasing paranoid-xenophobic society. Then we get involved in a day by day discussions until it be over. Sad, isn´t it?
2007-10-26 17:44:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey, I´m not rich, I´m a young hard worker with a good education level. Anybody have gift me anything I have as some of you are trying to mean
2007-10-26 17:57:59 · update #1
it always is difficult to be so in love and not have things work out and then it is over....and you are left with so many feelings for someone....
...it doesn't matter what you look like or what you have....all love takes and wants love back and everyone has their own things they value....have to find a way to live together and give to each other to make it work....
...maybe it is you are a very romantic person...and get strong feelings...but everyday life comes in...and then practical things are there to deal with....sometimes very difficult to keep romance and practical life working together....
2007-10-27 07:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by answergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's a sad but common tale, yet I don't believe geography had anything to do with it. if you became involved in a power struggle over where to live, perhaps there were really other problems that you'd rather not admit to yourself. You argue about the great things about returning home where life is predicable and easy for you...but N Europe is where she is from and perhaps Spain is more of a compromise...still in Europe closer to her home and family, while at least Spain is a Spanish speaking country and geographically "closer" to your homeland. Personally, I believe your judgement of Spain wasn't cool. If you loved her, you might have tried it as a compromise, and not seen yourself as the loser in the argument.
2007-10-27 00:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by justagorilla 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is sad for you, i just wish i was as stubborn as your ex but no i gave in to my husband and relocated to Florida. Nothing like your own home town. The funny part about this is my husband and i was born in the same state and both our families live back there in the state of Maryland.
2007-10-27 01:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i am older than you ,it does not mean that i think deeper but sure i know more .i have traveled east &west ,choose a woman from your own kind ,you live happily ,calm & comfortable
2007-10-27 01:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by safsoof 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to stay in your own little group.
2007-10-27 00:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your kind
2007-10-27 00:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
colombian women are beauitful......need i say more
2007-10-27 00:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Gordito 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is sad :-(
2007-10-27 00:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by Yesssssss!!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋