Hi,
I have been married for three years and our relationship is strong, life is good and we are happy. I love my wife and tell her every day. Sometime I think we tell each other that we love each other too much. It doesn't feel as special hearing "I love you" as it used to. What else can I say or do that is different? Does any one know what I mean??
Thanks in advance.
Matt
2007-10-26 17:40:21 · 10 answers · asked by matt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband still says "I love you" about a hundred times a week but he also does other things that mean so much more to me.
For example he sometimes brings me just one red rose when he comes home from work. I know he stops at the 7-11 mart and gets it for about two bucks but it is the thought that he makes the effort to stop,.
He knows how much I like the Fried Chicken at Walmart and sometimes he will just bring me some home.
He sends me e-cards from work that have all kinds of cute things on them
Basically he lets me know that I am in his thoughts all the time without spending a lot of money doing it.
He took a round piece of wood on valentines day and cut the words...Diane I love you, Nigel and brought it to me at work to hang on my office wall.
I have the most romantic, loving huband alive.
Good Luck
2007-10-26 17:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by mn lady 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear friend,
You can get her gifts once in a while. Not necessarily on a special occasion. Just pick any other day and surprise her. She'll love it.
Take her out on a date. Take her to the place where you first met and remind her how wonderful it was during that first meeting/date.
Send her emails even though you live in the same place. Tell her you love her. Or maybe you can buy cards,write something romantic in it and hide it under her pillow.
Good Luck! ;)
2007-10-27 00:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by Nicky83 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey honey, here, kitty, kitty...let's spank.
I mean really...why do you have to tell each you love each other every five minutes. Here you are...everything is perfect, life is perfect and you tell us that there is no problems. But, h ere you are asking for help because you tell each other you love each other too much.
There is something wrong with you because day in and day out all I hear is people with real problems about a lack of love, a lack of romance, and a lack of sex.
If that's your only problem, then you need to be thankful.
2007-10-27 00:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by CC 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The best advice I can give is to tell you what my husband does to make me feel loved and special.
He tells me he loves me often.
He tells me how beautiful I am out of the blue.
He tells me to be careful every time I leave the house.
He puts my wedding ring on my finger after I shower.
He cleans the house while I'm at the store.
He gasses up my car so I don't have to stop.
He reminds me that I'm the best investment he's ever made.
He makes the coffee before he goes to bed and set my coffee cup out with a little note.
He tells everyone that his wife is perfect.
He burns sweetgrass before I get home so it smells like home to me. (I'm Native American)
He tells me that the areas of my body that I'm self conscious of are his favorite.
If he sees a pretty woman he informs me that I've got her beat hands down.
He tells me that without me he'd be lost.
He rubs my feet after a long day.
He asks me if he makes me happy.
The most important things are little things that don't cost a penny but ensure that I know that he adores me even after all these years.
2007-10-27 08:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Remind her of a fond memory you two had while dating and falling in love and how looking back it was these little things that ultimately were what lead you know you would be together.
Put her towel in the dryer to warm it up for her while she's in the shower on a cold morning/evening.
Make her dinner.
Do something for her that she likes, but you're not necessarily thrilled about so she knows you're willing to do whatever it takes to make her happy.
2007-10-27 00:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I like it when my spouse just suprises me with something. It dosen't have to be something nice, just something that made him think of me when he was out or on his way home from work. It is that extra thing that makes me feel good that I was thought of. If you see something that you would know would make her smile or laugh get it for her. It could be something only you know she would like. And just tell her that you saw whatever it is and it made you think of her and you had to get it.
2007-10-30 23:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel that way, in a past relationship. It's an insecurity issue. Everything in moderation.
2007-10-27 00:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her you love by her getting her something that you know she loves and didn't ask for
2007-10-27 00:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by Gordito 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just be there for each other when u need to be
2007-10-27 00:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
bend her over the arm of the couch. spank her. bring one of her friends into the bedroom. invite her to watch you and her friend in the bedroom. make sure that you put pictures of her mom on your myspace page.
Let me know if you need anymore ideas.
2007-10-27 00:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋