Planning for my baby?

Question

I am now trying to conceive. It's my first time.
If it doesn't happen, then I'll go back to protection until some months later. Coz I either want to deliver in summer or December 2008.

What can I do now to make sure it happens later if it doesn't happen now. Coz if I don't get it right next time, I'll have to wait one year.

Note: irregular periods

Answer 1

Buff me.... puh-lease!!!!!!!

MOST women have irregular periods. The only factor that plays a part in a woman not being able to conceive is if they are not ovulating! Having irregular periods DOES NOT indicate the absence of ovulation. I think YOU need to do your own research. You obviously don't know what you are talking about! I have very irregular periods and always have! I have been pregnant 3 times.

Okay, to answer your question... Go to http://www.fertilityfriend.com and start charting. I really don't understand the reason for the specific due date?! Honestly, you don't want to wait too long. Some people find it harder to conceive the older they get. Being TTC is a tough road sometimes... you only have a 25% chance of conception each month. If you want to deliver in december you don't have to wait another year. As a matter of fact you should really start trying in January. You have to allow ten months, or 40 weeks plus you have to take into consideration of the 25% chance of conception. Don't stress out much. Just get on fertility friend. Trust me on that, FertilityFriend is THE best.



Also, in reference to some of your other questions... when you follow the shettles method of conceiving a certain sex, it is not 100% and since it is only a theory, even tho it is a good theory, you can't rely on it. If you want a child you really shouldn't worry about the gender too much. Having sex on your ovulation day is hard because it is hard to pinpoint an exact ovulation day BEFORE it happens. You will have your fertile signs in most cases, such as eggwhite cervical mucus and sometimes a dip in your BBT... and it really helps to use OPKs as well... But Shettles still is very unreliable. Also, if you have sex on one particular day instead of everyday you lower your chance of conception.

Answer 2

Keep track of your period every month. Especailly if they are irregular.
You know it takes 9 months pregnancy.
You are kinda of a bit late for a June Baby next year so try for Dec. 2008.

Count back 9 months. So start trying in March 2008.
Make sure you know wat ahead of time when your March period is suppose to start.
Start making love 2 weeks ( 14 days ) before that cycle.
Make love 2 out of 3 days then 2 out of 3 days again in sequence.
Do you follow what I am saying?

Also have a BASAL THEMONITER handy.
You know what that is?
Take your tempature in mouring either in your vaginal or in your bum.
Wait at least 5 to 6 mins.
If temp. is high you are fertile.

Also buy a first resopne kit.

Different sex positions help to.

If you need any more help write to; [e-mail]
Hope it works.
Good Luck.
Laurey.
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Answer 3

Start taking prenatals and learn about your body. here are lots of ways to see if you are ovulating, One way is track your cervical mucus. A few days before you ovulate it will become clear and stretchy similar to a raw egg white. And you can use a ovulation calender I love the one at www.babyhopes.com Also you can track her basal body temp when she is gonna ovulate it will get a little higher. Also you should have her husbands sperm count checked. And also after you has sex you should lay on her back with a pillow under her hips for 20 to 30 minutes to allow the sperm to pool against her cervix.

Answer 4

Buff Me is soooo wrong!!I had irregular periods and I'm now 13 weeks pregnant!!You just have to have sex like all the time.Thats what we had to do.Also don't think about having a baby just enjoy the sex and have fun.It will happen when it happens.Also when I had regualr periods my last pregnancy ended in miscarriage.Good Luck!!

Answer 5

I have 4 children lol. I know a sure way for sure. Don't have sex for a week after your period, to build up your mans sperm count. You will be ovulated too. It works for sure I planned my kids. It don't fail. If you can't conceive then ask your OB/GYN. They can tell you what you can do. Best of luck to you.

Answer 6

What does it matter when you deliver? You cant just decide when your baby is supposed to be made or born.

Have sex. Thats the best way to make babies- once you start trying to make it happen your way on your time table the stress keeps it from happening.

Answer 7

if you have irregular periods it will never happen. Thats telling you your body is not ready yet. do your homework on the web about what to do about that problem.

You must have regular periods to get pregnant.