possible asset to use. Itll only serve to irate him and fall in his disgrace, while he can bang women who are prolly hotter and more motivated for 100-300€. Seriously it boggles my mind how can anybody be so stupid ?
2007-10-26 14:12:22 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
No it doesnt, thats the whole point of my question, if a gf would do that for me she wouldnt get any for 3 weeks and the brothel would make like 2000€. I know a lot of guys who think the same.
2007-10-26 14:19:06 · update #1
Lol if my gf would think she can send me in the doghouse because I dont do x to get sex I dont discuss brothels with her, I just visit them untill she changes her attidude.
2007-10-26 14:28:26 · update #2
Bella how is sex with todays promiscous women any less risky than going to a brothel. At least I know they use condoms there.
2007-10-26 14:29:38 · update #3
A woman's body is hers to do what ever she wants with. You don't get an opinion or a vote. If a woman doesn't want to have sex with you because you have been a total jackass, which has turned her off, she is not bargaining with you. She is making a choice. You seem pretty motivated by sex so it would probably serve your interest to learn some respect. What I find really interesting, is that you don't seeem to think that threatening to bang hotter, more motivated whores is not some sort of bargaining game. The only stupid thing this woman has done, is enter into any sort of relationship with you at all. It really does boggle the mind. How did you get to be so stupid?
2007-10-26 14:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by meowmeowkitty 3 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Because it's worked for them in the past when nothing else worked. People learn through experience. If something has worked before, then surely it'll work again.
But, not all women use this method. It's an extremely immature way of thinking. Holding out because you can't get something that you want. People shouldn't use that as a bargaining tool. There are much better ways to get what you want. C-O-M-M-U-N-I-C-A-T-I-O-N.
As for the men who choose to visit a prositute. That's just stupid and pathetic. Why would you want to have sex with someone who's only motivation is money? It's also cheating and the men who do this are putting themselves at risk for s.t.ds. Now, really...how could anybody be so stupid?
2007-10-26 21:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by BeLLa 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm. I don't use sex as a bargaining tool, but do find that after I give hubby some and rock his socks, he'll gladly do anything for me.
That's just something I noticed, but I don't abuse it.
He could probably bang someone hotter, but that's not something that worries me, because I also keep him happy in other ways that a prostitute can't.
2007-10-26 23:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by Shivers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You visit brothels and that's supposed to be punishing her? What's the punishment, the diseases you'll inevitably spread to her? Nice.
How about, you put on your big boy undies and communicate with her or find a more compatible girlfriend instead of sneaking around like a kid?
Edit: by the way, if ever I did "withhold" sex, it would be because I don't FEEL LIKE HAVING SEX with someone who ticked me off. If that pushes him away then my answer is CYA.
Edit: Haha...at least you know they use condoms....what a dope.
2007-10-26 22:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Probably because most men have always used it as a bargaining tool themselves. They date a woman, or pay for a few drinks, and they believe this gives them the right to demand repayment in sex. Women wouldn't do it if it didn't pay dividends, hence your comment of paying prostitutes probably is more relevant to the man who can't get a hotty or a motivated person into bed with them through the social form/norm of 'buying sex'.
Further, it is important to remember that men have two heads, and when one head is refusing to think or be reasonable, it is sometimes simply easier to address the other.
2007-10-26 21:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Um, nobody OWES sex to anybody anywhere for any reason. So if you want it that desperately, I guess that's indeed your own problem. At least prostitutes get something in exchange for their sex instead of giving it away for free to jerk men who obviously don't even appreciate it, as evidenced by questions like this.
2007-10-26 23:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Because they are immature and lack self respect, respect for their partner and problem solving skills.
Its the equivalent of a child throwing a tantrum until they get their way. It is harmful to the relationship's intimacy, trust and respect.
2007-10-27 00:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree it's one of the worst things a woman can do, but for different reasons than yours.
2007-10-27 02:37:59 · answer #8 · answered by wendy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are used to do that very thing to the men who fall prey to them, like a rat caught in a trap and if he is only out for the cheese, he will get what he deserves as well as the women who uses sex to trap them. They will reap what they sow whether good or bad.
2007-10-26 21:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by *DestinyPrince* 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Because it can be priced. They are just good at business selling something that cost $100 for a lot more so you can put your weenie inside and shake it and shake it until you go... ah---oooooh, and feel so damn good about yourself! If you are a true player and have the equipment and the skills you make women compete for your sex!
2007-10-26 21:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋