Your kids should come first.
for me my relationship with my husband is the most important then the kids.
2007-10-26 13:50:58 · 17 answers · asked by mercedesgal63 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Husband comes first and then the kids. The kids grow up and move on and out of your life as it should be. Your husband will be around long after they leave and have their own lives.
2007-10-26 14:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by dragonrider707 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In your relationship you should put your husband first and he should put you first. The kids will always look at the parent that is weaker and use that parent to their advantage. Example my son may say dad can i have some cookies before dinner and my response would be no. Five minutes later he pulls my wife to the side and says quietly mom can i have some cookies. This action can be very divisive so remember to never argue in front of the kids and make them aware that playing your mother against your father is wrong and you wont tolerate it.
2007-10-26 14:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should your relationship with your husband/partner come first? or?
2014-12-13 03:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no 'right' and 'wrong' for your preference
I have no husband or kids, so i wouldn't know
But obviously both children and a partner is really important
To me though, i would say it's evened out.
Dont worry about it. As long as you love your children dearly, then it's okay to put your husband first...
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2007-10-26 14:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ уσυ вєℓσηg ωιтн мє ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand our compulsion to rate everything numerically, as if life were a college football ranking system. Love is infinite, and all that jazz. If you've got it, flaunt it--with your partner, your children, your friends, your relatives, or whomever.
Still, speaking as someone who has seen many women become mothers and thereafter view their husbands as glorified sperm donors, I applaud your devotion to your mate.
2007-10-26 14:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by grizzie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure about that. A woman usually has such strong maternal instincts that she would place nothing ahead of her children. Unless of course your husband is a really good man and the source of strength and peace in the family. If you place him first then the childen will naturally follow. But if you place him first for selfish woman reasons, the children will sense that and you've got problems coming.
2007-10-26 13:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Who drives more often on the week-ends? Husband/boyfriend/wife/girlfriend?
2017-03-25 13:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, the kids come first, but my husband matters a lot too. My kids are dependents...my husband is not, he is a friend and a lover, and most importantly, an adult who can cope without me. My kids depend upon my guidance (even when it is not so good!) and my commitment in a way that requires more immediacy than my husband does, in other words, he can wait....but not forever, and I miss him too so I do make the effort to keep that relationship working too. oh, yeah, and I need me too! Time for just me...that is often the hardest one to squeeze in.
2007-10-26 14:02:02 · answer #8 · answered by wawawebis 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Is it legal to schedule us 10 hours a day and only give us 8 hours for a vacation day?
2016-10-18 14:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by Bevvy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are entitled to choose any way you want. It would be interesting to see how your husband answers the same question. It is worth discussing it with him, if you never have.
How old are the kids?
2007-10-26 14:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋