My boyfriend hasd made me cry more than once and we've only been going out for 6 weeks. He knows I am absolutley against racism, yet he'll continually say racists things to me. Then he'll ask me whats wrong when I start to get quiet. He doesn't even realize it, although I DO tell him that it bothers me. He still doesn't respect my wish to keep his racists comments to himself. I am also into animal rights and I am an atheist, while he hunts and is a strong Christian. Our relationship would be fine if he wouldn't be so intolerant about my beliefs. I don't even say anything mean to him I just listen to his hunting stories and keep my thoughts to myself. Yet, he makes fun of me for my beliefs. How do I get him to stop it without having to end our relationship. I don't want to seem too needy but I don't want to always feel horrible after having a conversation with him. Please help:( By the way I'm a 15 year old girl if that has anything to do with this, and he is 14.
2007-10-26 13:50:39 · 13 answers · asked by Glossy Hair 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You know all that about yourself at 15? Lady you are 10 steps ahead of the game! Ok, now say this out loud "I will NOT be with a guy who's not clearly a good, kind, loving person. Don't get quiet-do more walk out, hang up, he'll see the action since he's not hearing the words.
2007-10-26 13:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by JenJen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but your relationship with this guy will not work,It is not very christianlike for him to do this to you,all though I do believe in God,Christians just dont act this way,but the relationship will not work and you shouldnt be treated this way nor made fun of and only you can put a stop to it.As for God He is real ,but its your choice and only you can deal with that issue,so I guess you need to think about what you want.
2007-10-26 14:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by cheryl v 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm he looks impolite. He ought to desire to spend time with you needless to say like numerous relationships there is a few area no longer being with eachother 24/7 yet nevertheless. you ought to communicate with him approximately spending greater time jointly in spite of each little thing you're his gf and he does might desire to furnish you a number of his time. If he does not have time for you then you definitely shouldn't the two.
2016-10-14 03:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are on completely different wavelengths. You cannot change his mind. You can NEVER change another person. The guy, in a word, is a jerk, and not worth the anguish HE"S causing you. Walk away. There are far better guys out there.
2007-10-26 13:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by Resident Heretic 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your values do not meet anywhere....and if values, what matters most to you and to him, don;t meet, then everything else is just fluff.
Stay committed to your values and beliefs, and leave him be....You truly have very little deep things in common...which make a relationship worth being in.
2007-10-26 13:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by gracefull 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not normal at all! Obviously, if he treats you that way and completely opposes your beliefs, you 2 weren't meant to be. If you don't feel comfortable with him, then break up with him. If he has temper problem (seriously would threaten you if you broke up), then simply avoid him.
2007-10-26 13:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren LeDorko 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, I think you are in love with love-- and not your bf.
Your interests are too different. That doesn't mean you are wrong or he is, you are just wrong for each other.
Plus, he sounds immature, as most boys are at 14.
Break it off with him and start hanging with guys and girls who have more similiar interests to yours.
2007-10-26 13:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa the Pooh 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You two aren't suppose to be together. Hope that didn't hurt you.
Oil and water are never together.
Nobody can change easily without hurting themselves. If you change him, you're hurting him. If he changes you, he's hurting you. Don't try to change anything. Just end the relationship.
2007-10-26 13:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by UnknownD 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hahahahah 15 and 14, a crazy christian, and a crazy athiest. do you even know why you're dating him?
2007-10-26 13:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
14?? Kinda robbing the cradle, aren't you?
2007-10-26 13:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋