And why do these straight women not become turned off always doing that? Not talking about me, coz no guy would dare treat me that way, but I know of women with guys like that...and I wanna know WHY? When they could be happier elsehow.
2007-10-26 13:47:53 · 11 answers · asked by dumbuglyweirdo 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
So when these chicas complain about it and say they're leaving, they're just complaining and getting their own need to feel cared for met by the one who wants to knock their boyfriend's teeth out? :-)
2007-10-26 14:39:44 · update #1
A better question would be why are these hard working girlfriends dating broke guys?
2007-10-26 13:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by Fall 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Because they are broke, and mooching off a girl friend is easier than asking for a raise.
I think your second question is a great one -- why do women put up with it? Maybe because he pays them back with charm and attention and perhaps satisfying sex? I really hope, in this day and age, women aren't hanging onto a lousy guy just because "I need a man, and you never know, the next one might be worse!"
It's an old, old saying, but there *are* other fish in the sea.
But then again, you have no idea what extra circumstances are involved that make these seemingly unbalanced relationships seem like a good idea. Decide how much whining you want to put up with from those women, and stick to your guns. You shouldn't have to hear about their sucky relationship choices -- unless they are offering really great friendship and job-networking benefits!
It's all a balance, isn't it?
2007-10-26 14:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by Madame M 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sure says a lot about the girl doesn't it?
She really must have low self esteem to think that all she can get is some broke dude that doesnt work.
My friend dated a guy kinda like this, was always willing to let her pay for everything out on dates. For some reason she kept going back to his stupid azz, she would say he's really talented, he was a "musician." I hate that guy! I always thought she was an idiot for being with him.
LOL Markie... Thats not what she is saying. The guy doesn't ALWAYS have to pay but it'd be nice if he did sometimes and had a job so he could pay. If he needs to borrow money he should call his mom.
2007-10-26 13:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by Leizl 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Because they enable this behavior and dependency by giving in all the time. If they stopped doing it the guys would have to find another way to pay for these things. Like work, for instance. It's a symbiotic relationship; the girls feel needed and the guys have another mommy.
2007-10-26 14:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Some women like the idea of feeling needed. So they mother their boyfriends a lot.
2007-10-26 14:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mimza 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO you're actually not to blame for her. Is she f***cking loopy? it quite is the crasiest component ive heard heavily tell her to bypass stick it and if she insist you are able to bypass to the regulation of path you may desire to constantly help her by utilising a act of stable faith
2016-09-27 23:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your real question should be: "Why are these working women so dumb that they give their broke azz boyfriends money to pay for pizzas and cable?"
Now THAT'S the question that needs to be asked.
2007-10-26 13:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by M2 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
basically what you are saying is....
1) its good to love, but not a broke guy
2) men should have to pay "always"
3) broke guys are a turn off
4)money brings happiness
hmmm.....
sorry , but i dont know if i can agree with you there
2007-10-26 13:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by Elizabeth Aragon 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋
There's a sucker born every minute.
2007-10-26 17:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz theyre broke...show him the door...women like employed men..
2007-10-26 14:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋